Am I going to pursue my love or I'll just give up?

Philippines
September 18, 2008 12:41am CST
I'm in love to a girl that has a boyfriend. I ask her if she love me to, but even she haven't say anything she always makes me happy and see to it that I can feel her love. I was so happy when she answered me that she loves me too. but there's one thing that keeps on bothering me, it's her boyfriend. she told me that if I can wait and pass all struggles that we might encounter I may win her heart. But I'm optimistic that shes just finding way to break her boyfriend and that's what I'm hoping to happen.
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@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
I think that you should wait until she breaks up with her guy.
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• Malaysia
18 Sep 08
Love is complicated. Well.. I'm in in that girl's case before. Is really frustrating to choose either one of the guy she like. Love is blind and totally no idea to choose. She may afraid that she will choose the wrong one because most of the girl are choosing for their Mr. RIGHT. If you really love the girl very much, you should wait for her. No matter how, the important is that you be at her side when she needs someone.
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Well, I hope she breaks up with her boyfriend FIRST then have the relationship with you. It will hurt her boyfriend knowing his girl loves somebody else yet is not breaking up with him.It's best that she be honest with her bf first. As for you, I hope you don't enter the relationship until she is completely through with hers yet.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 08
Maybe you are just her spared parts where when ever she has a fight or quarrel with her girlfriend she has no one to turn too and she can only share it with you because she know you love her and you will sure treat her good. If she really love you times will prove it when she leave her boyfriend for you. If she keep pretending and ask you to waited long you may start to think its is worth to love her again. We can't figure out how a girl may think cause we are not her and most girl are mean and greedy they just wanted the best boyfriend and the girl you love are like in the process of trying out you two boy and see whose better to her. I may be wrong but this is just an experience of mine hope it helps you. Have a nice day ahead. If the girl really go for you i hope u have a happy relationship.