Have you ever deny friend request on my Lot?

Indonesia
September 18, 2008 4:14am CST
Have you? What makes you do that? i never deny a friend request in mylot, but i deny enemy request on myLot sorry jokes , but i'm sorry i will deny if they ever told anything that makes my heart hurt And i will delete my pending friends request if they're not adding me for a week, because i don't like if they takes a long time for judging me before adding me to their friend list How about you? Do you have special criteria?
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@nini89 (670)
• India
23 Sep 08
I never denied any friends request on mylot. I rarely post on mylot some days i never go to that site. There are many friends request but my posting are not completed i wish to post but lack of time. Happy posting and have a good day.
@nini89 (670)
• India
24 Sep 08
I am happy in posting rarely but it doesnot mean that i forget the friends request. Happy posting have a nice day.
• Indonesia
24 Sep 08
yeah, i'm only joking hehe ... have a nice day
• Indonesia
23 Sep 08
I guess you are too happy in posting until you forgot the friend requests
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
19 Sep 08
Hi maxilimian, I don't like to deny anyone a friends request because I don't like having it done to me and it has been done and I don't like the way it feels. I am sometimes a little uncomfortable when I see that someone who has never been in a discussion of mine asks for a friend request, because I wonder why they are asking, but I still don't refuse. I especially like to help newbies because when I was new people were really nice to me and I was able to make alot of friends. I don't delete friends either. I have friends on my list that have left mylot or that I know for a fact are inactive, but I don't have the heart to delete them
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• Indonesia
22 Sep 08
That's very kind of you, i guess i'll help other if i have any experience in my lot, but right now i don't have it but i'll keep tryin to help them with all of my experienced in mylot
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@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
20 Sep 08
No, I never did denied any of the request from any of the Mylotter to be one of my friend here in MyLot for it is an honor for me that someone would like to be one of my friend.....
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• Indonesia
22 Sep 08
I'll be happy too, if someone request a friendship with me Keep on a good relationship
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@wolveren (1586)
• Cebu, Philippines
19 Sep 08
I accept friends without question. There is absolutely no time to figure each and everyone out if there is really anything to figure out in the first place, I accept everyone who sends a friend request. It does take time sometimes because there are other things to do than just gawk at my inbox, but I do find time to visit and check. My point exactly is, I have no special criteria, to be on a sharing network site, you have to be open. And I don't mind if some here doesn't accept my friendship, they are entitled to do whatever they want as long as they aren't real nasty to others and of course under the rules on myLot. Lol. This world is meant to be free. Freedom of choice. I would love to be your friend. Cheers!!!
• Indonesia
22 Sep 08
Nice to meet you to, have a nice day and earn a lot of friends
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• India
19 Sep 08
Hey friend it a good concern from your end that you described about yourself, nice to know about your point of view, that you don't deny any friend request, but can you if you believe in true friendship then you will find that very few of them used to talk regular and exchange their ideas with you . dear making friends is easy, but maintain a good and healthy relationship is other thing. I think you got What i want to say, if you believe in friendship then make friends not member in your list. ok dear try to think form my views rest is your wish. have a nice time
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• Indonesia
22 Sep 08
I got your point, and i belive in friendship, of course i have alot of friends and relative outside mylot have a nice time too
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@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
19 Sep 08
for me right now, i don't have that kind of problem.but if i meet things like that ,maybe it depends, we can't deny a person only because of taking a long time before adding us to friends list,there maybe exist some reasons we can't expect.of course,if normal,that won't take too long to decide that.so whatever you do have your own ideas or reasons ,that doesn't change anything,what we do is just tolerate people as many as possible.and have a good time here,enjoy the feeling we should cherish.
• Indonesia
22 Sep 08
i wish i could tolerate just like you, but i have a limitation with my patience principles
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
18 Sep 08
No I have never denied anyone to be my friend on mylot. I believe that if someone asks to be on my friends list than he has a genuine interest to reply to my posts. I am an avid mylot user at these days, but there were moments when I did not log in much. So I won't delete anybody who has taken a week to add me on his list or to reply to my friendship request.
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• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
Well actually i don't delete my friend because of their inactivity or never response me right now ... i think maybe it's because they were busy people and can't log in to my lot
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• United States
19 Sep 08
I certainly have denied many friend requests. I check the profile for there interests, type of discussion they have started or responded to and if we do not have anything in common then I do not accept them. I also keep my friend's notifiers turn on so I do not want to get more emails of their new discussions than I can handle.
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• Indonesia
22 Sep 08
So your criteria is their discussion that has interest in common i'll note that
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@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
19 Sep 08
I don't deny friend requests on mylot. In fact, I don't think I have ever denied one the whole time I've been a member here! I guess I just have never felt I had any reason to deny someone. I always just accept everyone upfront, and then I figure if I have any issues with someone later, then I can always delete them if I feel it's necessary, though that doesn't seem to happen very often either. I try to be open to being friends with everyone though, as long as they don't give me a reason not to be.
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• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
I think everyone are tryin to be a good friend each other in mylot, but sometimes they're miss in judging us, and start growin bad ... or maybe you meet your "enemy" in the real life here's in mylot try adding you it's only tought ....
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
19 Sep 08
Yes, I have denied peoples friends requests before, but that was when I was still new and didn't know what friends on here were for. Now I accept everyone that requests it. I know I should probably delete those on my pending friends request list, but I just can't seem to do it. I went through the trouble of requesting these peoples friendship, the least they can do is accept or deny my friendship.
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• Indonesia
22 Sep 08
i usually delete them if it seem there is no response after all, i think they won't add us, but they don't want to deny it after all, so it's better me to do it before them
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@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
18 Sep 08
I haven't denied anyone from fried request yet but if I see that if someone's being unreasonably rude about something, than I would... There is a way to make a point even when you don't agree with someone... There is being honest, even brutally, & there is being just rude without any reason at all... I can't stand those people... If you don't agree with someone, state your opinion that you're rightfully entitled to but it should end there... Agreeing to disagree doesn't have to be a rude thing, and even further, being completely honest doesn't have to be a rude thing either...
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• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
You are right at all points, i can't stand for these kind of people, even if they once telling a bad things about me in my back or even in front of me there's no use to maintain a relationship with them, i'll do like you do Have a good friends
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@winzpc (2354)
• Indonesia
18 Sep 08
I never deny my friend request. I like to make a friendship, so there is no reason for me to deny their requset. Beside that I hope I can make all myLot members to become my friends. In my real life, I always do the same. I like to friend a mate than an enemy. keep post happy myLotting...
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• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
Nice of you, but there's no difference between making any friends in the internet world or in real life, they're a real people good things to share, happy mylotting too
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• Philippines
18 Sep 08
I've never denied any friend requests either, though there are some times when I take a long while accepting them. See, there are times when people you don't know, never encountered, and not even sure how they came upon your username, ends up friending you and I have to wonder what made them do it. I do end up friending them, though, because they took the effort of friending me and it's always nice to know more people. I am too shy to go and ask them the reason why they friended me, though, and while it's nice to have friends here in mylot, I haven't really met a lot of people I can talk to outside of it. _
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• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
Yeahhh you right! i never think of it before, what makes other people adding us as their friend :chuckles: but anyway you can learn socializing in mylot too, so you didn't have to shy anymore
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@tushark1 (117)
• India
18 Sep 08
As i like to make friends i did not deny any friends request on mylot. I always accept request and have some contacts with them to make deep friendship relations.
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• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
Wow i'm impressed with the word "deep" you tell have a nice relationships here
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@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
18 Sep 08
Well basically i haven't deny anyone on mylot yet , but i would only deny friend request when i really hate that person being rude or offensive yea .
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• Indonesia
18 Sep 08
That's is the deny button function made for, isn't it? To deny rude or sarcastic people
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• Philippines
18 Sep 08
hahaha.. are you serious? sorry for telling this.. because i'm still a newbee here on my lot.. i actually accept friends imediately because i want to have many friends on this site... i can discuss topics with my friends(especially with other matters regardless of the current topic.=p) and make other friends connected to them.. maybe i think if they would do hurt your feelings, i agree to deny them.. it is actually not good for us to have enemies in the net.. just be good in order to have more friends and ifyou think that they have the "un-ethical" things to do with you, and that's the right thing to deny them.. ok? have fun=p
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• Indonesia
18 Sep 08
yep i'm serious, i know it wasn't good making an enemy, i just don't like them arround my friend list, i dunno if i adding them, maybe they can stab me from behind just like enemy behaviour do but i'm happy so far in mylot, i hate making people becomes my enemy, i just like a friendship and keeps away of the enemy word
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• Singapore
18 Sep 08
I have never denied a friend request. I add them all as my friends.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
No I have not denied anyone. It is always my pleasure to be requested of friendship so I never would deny anyone. I don't even have a criteria. Anyone who requests friendship, I'd gladly accept and will do any possible support I could give to him or her.
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• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
That's very kind of you, i think this is why you can easily reach marvelous payments on mylot glad to add you as friend
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@tonytt2009 (1706)
• China
18 Sep 08
I never deny friends request in mylot as I think peopel here would like to expand their friend pool to meet different kinda people from all over the world.I don't think it is a wise choice to deny the request,at least on my end.As well,I don't often ask someone to join me as friend unless I found the posts they make interesting or something like that~`lol
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• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
so do i, i want to add so many friend arround the world, so i'll get famous if oneday i'm visit to one country, because i have a lot of friends
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• India
19 Feb 09
well,....no ...not yet.. i haven't denied anyone here yet.....i haven't found anyone here who is rude enough to be denied... i fact i keep increasing my friend list......i have added you now,.....do accept it. have a nice day,...and happy mylotting.
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• Indonesia
19 Feb 09
already don't said not yet, yaa coz we hope you won't find any ... have a nice day too and happy my lotting
• India
20 Feb 09
ha ha....ya....hope i don't find any.....