too soon to get a place
By angelface23
@angelface23 (2494)
United States
September 18, 2008 9:12am CST
Thanks to those who responded to my other discussion about getting back with my husband. This discussion is more about us moving in together. Do you guys think it's a good idea to get a place now or should we wait a while and see how things go first?? That's what my gram thinks. I guess that would be the best thing to do cause what if we get a place and then it doesn't work out with us and it's past the point of us being able to be around each other? I really want to get out of my grams though so I don't want to make a hasty decision.
6 responses
@saroodebolan (408)
• Pakistan
18 Sep 08
well dear.. its all about being with him.. OR not being with him... moving with him won't make a difference, if you do not want it deep down inside... so just figure it out first and follow your heart
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@angelface23 (2494)
• United States
18 Sep 08
I cant afford a place without him though cause he makes more money than me. I really do want to get out of my grams house but I know that's not a reason to move in with him again. Eventually we will get a place if it works out. I guess I want to know how much time should we wait like a month or two months before getting a place?
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
18 Sep 08
i agree with your gram i would wait to move in with him but i do suggest getting your own place and let him spend time there live life like you would normally do if yall lived together that way you can see if he has really changed good luck
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@angelface23 (2494)
• United States
18 Sep 08
Can't afford a place by myself. I only make $1200 a month and have lots of bills I am trying to pay off.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
18 Sep 08
I think your grams advice is wise to stick to. Let's say that things work out between you two. At this moment your relationship might be a bit fragile. I don't think its wise to add another strain, that of financial stress. If I were you I would wait a little bit. I would see how things would work between you two. And then proceed accordingly.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
18 Sep 08
Having not read the first discussion yet I'm understanding that you and your husband split up and have now patched things and your thinking of moving back in together. If the problems you had were serious enough to cause a split up then I'd say that you probably need to give it a little time to see if things are going to stay patched up. Rushing into something just to get out of a not-so-happy living arrangement (at your grams) isn't always the best thing to do. If things don't work out with your husband you may end up right back at your grams or stuck in a worse situation. If it were me, I'd try to make things easier with grams and take it slow with hubby. Good luck with it.
[b]**AT PEACE WITHIN**
~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]
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@rainmark (4302)
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18 Sep 08
Maybe you don't need to hurry, just give yourself and your husband a little time to spend for yourself then you going to decide together if you are both ready in living together and where to get the right place for your good start again. Just need more little time.happy myloting and im happy for your lovelife now, hope it will last longer and forever.
