The one who loves you, or the one you love?
By JannaLee
@JannaLee (660)
Philippines
September 18, 2008 9:17am CST
What if love as an emotions is divided into halves, both into a single direction. For instance you're given the predicament to choose between the one you love or the one who loves you...whom would you choose and why? Hope to hear from you..^^ Happy mylotting
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4 responses
@iceblizzard (749)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
I choose the one I love. I knew I'm at my best when being by her side. But If I could just divide my heart in two, I'd prefer both, but since I can't split it into halves, I'd rather have the one who holds my heart. Being love by someone is a wonderful feeling knowing someone values you, but if you see the one you love, your heart jumps here and there, you don't know what to do and it seems your world stop just to please her. It's not everyday you meet the person who has the magic of letting you fall inlove, and when you do, you can't help it. It's hard to resist, and your whole world will be in circles.
@iceblizzard (749)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
I'm a cinder in space and dust in her universe. Yet, with the one I love, I'm secure. I refuse to call this life a failure. That's what I am when I'm with her.
@jpistofast (33)
• Canada
18 Sep 08
I rather have someone tell me "I love you" but that is unlikely for me cause I'm a guy... But things happen you never know
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
18 Sep 08
This is a simple question but hard to choose or answer. If I was in this situation I would rather choose to the one who loves me. With that, I am sure that I'll be loved by someone whom I wanted to be loved because sometimes you are being taken advantage by the one whom you love knowing that you love him/her and do things what makes that person happy even though it will hurt you. They said, love sometimes needs sacrifices but it needs respect and loyalty too.. I would rather sacrifice myself to be with someone who love me because I know that person will give the respect and loyalty I need than to be with someone whom i choose to love. Its not hard for me to love someone especially if its really giving an effort to show the love I needed.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 08
Hi Janna, I'm going to be a bit selfish, and say that I would choose the one who loves me.
When you love someone too much, you tend to place a lot of emotion and effort into the relationship, and when he disappoints you, it hurts like mad. And of course, it is going to hurt more, if the relationship is not balanced - that is, you love him more than he loves you.
Of course, if I choose the one who loves me, he has to be someone I like, not someone totally repulsive, right? This relationship will be emotionally less exhausting, and I will definitely be more rational. 
