How does it feel to get dumped in love ?

@cyrux004 (948)
India
August 22, 2006 11:53pm CST
Has any body gone through this experience ? This stage is no better no a trauma. You invested so much time in this realationship and it has gone all down the drain What i feel is the best way to get out of this trauma is to find a true friend who can emotinally support you to get out of this feeling
17 responses
@bimal10p (1218)
• India
23 Sep 06
fall frm a tree and break ur hand.. fall frm stairs and break ur leg... fall frm bed and break ur head... but never fall in love and break ur heart....
@mightor (69)
• Netherlands
18 Sep 06
Yeah! i experienced this once and it feels like being taken out of heaven and dumped in the purgatory.
• India
24 Aug 06
i KNOW HOW IT WOULD BE,
@asa010 (1128)
• India
23 Aug 06
i had a break up but it just aloows u to see life in a better way...u cant bind a person who is no more in love with u...move on...friends is the best way out.
• United States
23 Aug 06
yeah it sucks 4 a while but then u just gotta move on. Ive never been dumped, but ive been turned down.
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
24 Aug 06
After having your gut ripped out and leaving a big hole full of pain?? I'd say get hammered and know that the other person has serious issues!
@rainbow (6761)
23 Aug 06
yeah it does really hurt but this person obviously wasn't your true love. When you meet your true love this will not be a problem.
• Ghana
23 Aug 06
Well, what can I say, I wouldn't go through that because I've never loved whole heartedly, but have NEVER cheated.
@germax (9)
• Zimbabwe
23 Aug 06
Liyana i jus encourage u to follow ur heart.never act out of emotions but take ur time and show that u are a lady of character.he may be takin adv of ur perhaps lovesick attitude.
@zwesto (67)
• South Africa
23 Aug 06
It feels excruciating,especially if you have done wrong!
• United States
23 Aug 06
yea it sucks i thought i was with the girl of my life we were childhood friends the dated in high school for 2 years it went downhill from that... anyways its horrible just cause you cant get that one individual off your mind no matter what you do and it ends up ruining your life for a short period of time. and true friends can help if they knew what you were going through but mainly they need to be there for a shoulder to cry on
@lisamantz (141)
• United States
23 Aug 06
WEll, I think most people have gone through a similar experience. I hung out with friends and actually came out of my shell and did a lot of fun things I never did before, like I became a new more fun person. I think finding new adventures and getting out of the house, with good friends is some of the best ways to deal. Then you are not moping around feeling sorry for yourself, but get to meeting new people and enjoying life.
@1summer (274)
• United States
23 Aug 06
its an awful feeling but part of life. When you break up with someone who means somuch to you, its almost like a mourning process, first there is grief, then denial, later anger, and finally you accept the situation. You can't rush the process of getting over your loss, the process takes time.Yes you need to spend as much time with friends who understand what you are going through. Whatever you do though always stick to reality, the reality being that this person is nolonger a part of your life. Take it day by day and you will get over the person. When your heart has healed and you are whole again you would have the strength to meet new people.
• United States
23 Aug 06
I have...and it does help to talk to someone
@rizwan09 (743)
• India
23 Aug 06
naaaaaaa i am not in love relation so that anyone can dumped me....
@Kariii (53)
• United States
23 Aug 06
be there done that about to do it again .!!11 years of marriage down the drain because he doesn't like snow. Now I ahve two girls about to lose their daddy.
@leeoz22 (183)
• Australia
23 Aug 06
Yes I have been through this emotional roller coaster. I am slowly getting out of it but it still hurts. Hurts badly. I think it just takes time. You dont think so at first but it does slowly get better with time.