will you still marry your partner even though you know he's a bum?

I think that if I had a stable income and I was definately able to support him and he was an amazing guy that I couldn't pass up, I would easily do it. But he would have to get a job. He would have to at least be trying. He's not going to take advantage of me! I don't know how I would feel about being somewhat superior to him in a way, though. He would have to respect me a bit extra because I'm the one with the money. It might be bad for his self esteem. But I don't think it's that big of an issue if you ask me. As long as we don't have to rob banks!

No way. I like to know that I am provided for and he is not a bum. My husband and I when we first started dating he was going through something that he did not feel comfortable tellingme yet because we had been dating for 4 mths. He stopped working and was just staying at my apartment everyday. It really started to scare me because I loved him so and I did not want to think that this was happening. I finally helped him through his issue and he want back to work. I know that is when my husband is give out when he sits out for a few days. But he works hard and I know that something is really wrong when he doesnt go.