Woman say im TOO NICE?..
By diacedez
@diacedez (177)
United States
September 19, 2008 12:46am CST
almost every woman ive been with tells me im 'too nice' ahah.. pretty wild if u ask me, guys who treat their woman like crap have their girl stick with them and tend to enjoy it i guess, im the type that wants the perfect relationship.. woman say im too good to be true.. i just dont wanna argue.. keep things simple and i tend to do whatever i can do to make a woman happy.. maybe i just want a fairytale relationship but i think its possible if u really wanna make it happen.. but my question to the ladies is.. do u want a man to treat u a lil crappy? does that make the relationship more exciting or what? ahah..
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4 responses
@savypat (20216)
• United States
19 Sep 08
Any person that wants to be treated badly has mental problems and you are better off without them. But most women need to feel that the fact that they are with you will change you for the better, If you are already great, there is no challange. They also feel that they can push around a guy who is to nice. That's how I am, I need a strong guy, who has his own opions and will defend them,
I need to feel that he will stand up to the world to protect me, and that shows when he stands up for himself. I have been married a long time 50+ years and sure
there have been arguements, and sometimes fights over things, mostly money, but we both have learned to give in and not to be hurt because we didn't agree on issues,
We even belong to different political parties. But because we are each other's best friend we have faced the life problems together. Believe me there are no fairy tale relationships. If that's what you want you are in for a lot of disapointment.LOL
@diacedez (177)
• United States
19 Sep 08
LOL.. no i know a relationship isnt gonna be some fairytale.. but sometimes arguements are foolish at times.. n i do have my own opinions.. its not having to do with any of that.. i stand my ground plenty.. but i meant far as i tend to do alot for any woman im dating.. when she's happy, im happy.. being nice doesnt have anything to do with if you stand up for yourself or any of that.. i dont let anyone push me around, trust me ahah.. when i get pissed, its scarey lol.. but thanks for you response..
@sillygirlsd (959)
• United States
19 Sep 08
I think that when a woman tells a man that they are too nice..it really means 'i don't like you anymore' or 'your ugly, I've found someone else.' I know from 1st hand experience because I've told guys that and I've left them. When I was 18 I was a player. I don't like to admit it and my bf will never find out. lol!
I would break up with a guy after 3 months just because I got bored or found someone else. And that's what I would tell them 'You are too nice' instead of telling them the truth that might hurt them i would tell them that!
@diacedez (177)
• United States
19 Sep 08
wow.. your mean, just kiddin lol.. naw its def not that they think im ugly, TRUST ME ahah.. woman know im the best thing since sliced bread ;) lol.. in the bed and all :D lol.. i just think i tend to pamper woman too much maybe? ahah, i dont know but thanks for your opinion..
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
19 Sep 08
Human nature is something i will never understand I often see women who treat their men like dogs and the men stick by them then i see women who give their men everything and these are the ones that men seem to cheat on so i guess it goes both ways, I think humans just don't know when they are on a good thing...
@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
19 Sep 08
sometimes my girlfriend say what i said is too good to hear,she doubt whether i can do or not.though that sounds nice,that is really my inner words in my heart, because i really love her, i won't let her suffer any, i only wish all the pain comes to me,i can shoulder that ,only for her smile ,her happiness.but can she understand what i mean?can she understand the love i have poured into her ? i want to be with her until the day i die,she is the only girl i love in this world .
