would you rather fall for a friend or a stranger?

Philippines
September 19, 2008 9:38am CST
love is blind and heck it is we do not know who is the one but comming from your experience do you think that its better to have a relationship with someone who you knew for a longtime or someone you just met?
6 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
20 Sep 08
Well it depends hahaha! I think if it was really meant for you it will just happen no matter if his a stranger or a friend. As long as he or she is sincere with you and love you for what you are. Just let it flow and just being you. Sometimes it's just starts with hi and hello. Just follow your heart okay! Good morning!
@tootsier (47)
• Philippines
20 Sep 08
i would prefer someone I've known for a long time for i'm the kind of person who doesn't fall in love for someone so easily.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
19 Sep 08
I rather fall in love to a stranger than to a friend. I wont risk the friendship we had started just because of it. There are disadvantages and advantages falling in love to a friend and to someone that you just met. To a friend, it would be easy for you to know his likes and dislikes and you don't have to start over knowing him. But if you two break up you would feel awkward around him and it may cause to have a gap between your friendship. To a stranger, it needs time for both of you to know each other, but when you break up two things may happen. Either you two will become good friends or just turn back and say GOODBYE.
• United States
19 Sep 08
There's something to be said for both of those options, I guess. I've always chosen to not get involved romantically with men I have been friends with for a long time. I'm always afraid that something bad will happen and I will lose their friendship. On the other hand, if you date a friend, you already know each other very well. It may be awkward at first transitioning from friend to lover, but it could be worth it. So, to answer your question... I don't really know!!
@rainmark (4302)
19 Sep 08
Im not sure, lolz. Maybe, that depends on the person. Sometimes some people fall in love to thier best friends/friends and some fall in love to strangers. So maybe either of the two juts depends on your heart said.
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
19 Sep 08
Personally i cant really say who is the person you will fall in love with. Love happens unexpectedly. You cant just tell your brain to tell your heart to feel it towards someOne you knew. So it actually depends on who you fall in love with and not which person is better to have a relationship with. I dont think a relationship will work out if you just choose to have a relationship with someone merely because you know him so well.