Discussing death with young children

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Unfortunately this is not a very happy discussion, but I would love to know what other parents opinions are on this matter. I have three children 6, 4, and 3. My mother has been suffering from ALS for over 4 years now and I believe there is not much time left. My concern is mostly for my 6 year old daughter, she is very emotional as most young girls are at this age. She knows that Grandma is sick, she has seen the progression from the very beginning. I don't believe that she knows that it is resulting in death. I am torn as to whether or not to tell her. I have some people telling me that I should to lessen the blow and allow her to say goodbye in her own way. The only thing I am afraid of is I want her to enjoy the remaining time and am afraid if I tell her, every time she goes to see Grandma she will be thinking about her dying. I would love to know if anybody has had a similar experience or what your opinions are. Thank you!