What should do if my roomates troubled me?

Ask them to sleep or remain quiete once its is time to sleep....gently ...IF they dont understand go to hostel warden ......and seek some help regarding same .... Thanks Ganesh

kill them.hehehe.just joking flouya.how are you? how in the world did you get to India?Im glad you are exposed to more english people now.if you come to the philippines, you are most welcome to stay with us. I experienced living in dormitories too. But we had lights out at a cetain time and mouths shut at a certain time too.LOL We had a dorm mistress who took care of us. I know you cannot just report them right away, they will feel bad.the nerve of feeling bad when they were at the wrong. So talk to them first. Maybe they will undestand. If they wont...kill them!hehehe, Im just making you laugh. If they wont, report them. If they will treat you as the enemy...request for transfer. Are they chinesse too? Good luck!take care of yourself and never allow people to bully you.

I just think our boy's room is always loud before. Last year I was a freshman like you,and I met the same trouble in our room.I felt angry at the time .But now I find that it is common in every room of our college now and changing it is even impossible. It is hard to change,I think.

Hi Flouya...Great to know ur new school life has started. This is the time you learn as well as meet new people.So,just enjoy the process and be friends and enjoy the time you be there...I feel its just a minor issue..It may seem big now..but when u move out of school and move into life..you will remember these little things as sweet memories. So,I would say just take it light..be friends and when you mingle well with people around,slowly people will understand you and try to be good to you as well. These are part of student life....Nothing to worry about.have a nice time.

as far as i am concerned in a hostel you have to adjust .....if you cant beat them join them. find yourself some ear buds or something.....no offense but if you try to mess with your roommates your stay will be horrible...from my experience. hey just curious is there any ragging going on for the freshers there in your hostel?

try to be always honest about what bothers you but relax with it, and try to seek solutions with the roommate.. anyway noone is going away for a while... patience is important.. it will help you later when you actually live with someone!!

Hi I can understand your problem because i too faced it lot of times.First of all you communicate with them properly tell them how you are disturbed by them what ever things done by them.Make them clearly to notice your problem caused by them

thats one hard problem you got there flouya. maybe you should talk to them about it so that they will never bother you if you sleep at night. are you in college? maybe you should be more friendly from your room mates so that they will understand you.

Speak up! tell them that it bothers you and show them the meaning of respect. Talk to them eye to eye in a gentle manner. I hope it will help!

If my room mate is disturbing me and will not make me to concentrate with my studies or my life what i will quickly do is to avoid him or fer and try to get anther acomodation.

Hi Flouya! Most hostel girls will be like that,the only thing you can do is to join with them and make them to sleep on time.If you dont move with them in a better manner,just tell them frankly that your not comfortable with their behaviour.In the worst case you change your roommates.Thank You.

From my hostel life experience,I personally suggest you to "mind your own business".Show them tht u dnt get disturbed frm such acts.The moment they'll realise this,they'll stop doing it.

It sounds to easy for me to say change rooms I trust for some reason that is not possible so i guess you have to learn to cope with it and hope this is not the case every night If it were me i would probably try to join them and get in on the laughing ,screaming and jokes...I love jokes Sorry i could be more help but that is view of this situation Good Luck and Have a Great day

You should tell them to keep their noise level down and tell them to be considerate when you need to rest. I'm sure they will cooperate if you ask. If not, you can request to change rooms and get different room mates

Those girls need to be respectful of you because you live there too and you obviously were trying to sleep. Maybe you could talk to them and tell them that you're trying to sleep and that you can't sleep with all the noise. Maybe ask them to go somewhere else to talk if that is possible or have them be a bit quieter with their chatter.

I think you are not indulging with them in gossiping and discussion and they are teasing you in this way to make you join with them in the day's activities. There is no harm in joining them in good things and in this process you will get involved in them and they will not tease you in the night feeling your sentiments.