remarriage

hi hon, how sweet of you to want your mom to be happy too. But I have to ask you...are you sure that she isn't? I have 4 girls and have been married twice. It has been 9 years since my last serious relationship. I do date and there is a very special man that I have dated off and on for the past nine years. Still, I like being single and living on my own...being independent. I don't want any deep relationships with all the emotional baggage that tends to come along with them...especially as you get older...more baggage. My girls at one point were all bent on getting me hooked up with some guy, thinking i'd be so much happier. I know they meant well but I really did not want the blind dates, etc. Many women are that way. Are you sure your mom really wants help in this area?

Well I think if your mother is looking for a new partner then the best ways are to find someone with a common interest. This can be done by joining clubs or groups that do what she likes. For example if she likes dancing she can go to dancing class and meet people there. There are lots of groups that form around interests. There are also online dating sites but I am not sure you can do it for her. She needs to decide what she wants and then take an active interest in something. I suppose the only other way that I know is to find a match maker. I am not sure if you have that option in your country. I know that some countries use it.

My first question would be has she indicated that she even wants to find a Mr. Right. She may not be. I would be discussing it with her first. She may be content in the situation and not wanting another man. That would be the first thing I would find out. Than there are places that you can go to to help find a compatable person to suit your Mom. Finding someone with like interests. The main thing is not to get in a hurry because if your Mom wants to find a Mr. Right it takes time and searching.