loving with no kissing?

hmm... I used to be like that... I avoided kissing my first gf... the most I did was hug her or hold her hand... and it is actually possible because I truly loved and respected her... and that's how I used to show it... and the same goes for my second gf.. well both of these girls are very attractive... in fact they are both eye catchers and I needed to compete with other guys to win their heart... but my love was stronger than the physical attraction... so I guess that's why I was able to have a relationship without having to kiss them... but as for my 3rd gf it was a next level relationship...

i think kissing is not bad to express you love to anybody especially to your bf/gf but you have to set some limitations. i am proud of your friend because he follows his faith, and if his girl love him enough, she should understand, what his girl feeling is lust. there are so many ways to express your love, hugging or embrace is one, and if your friend doesn't want to kiss her on the lips, then let him kiss her on the forehead,coz it means you respect the girl so much and i find it more romantic.

see xh4ou! You can give without loving. but you cnnot love without giving. To give something to somebody, the broad mentality and the nature/heart of giving and the requirement andt he necessaity to the other person of that particular material/article or whatever..................is enough. the necessity is enough there no love is requierd at all. but if you really love, then you have to show it, express it by any means. and the means could be pressing of palm, holding of hand, a mild kiss on her hand or forehead or eyes, or even a shakehand or hug. or even small gift articles which/to express your love has to be given. but most of all the material things love needs caring and atleast light touch. and secondly if your girl is in a haste for something else, then make her understand that you want your firsttime to be with her only and only after marriage with all its divinity and sanctity. i am sure she will respect you a lot for your pious feelings. goodluck buddy.

hi xh4mou, when that person really loves you. respecting each other is the basis to know it.

kiss is the base of love and love is commitment for marriage and if you say like this then it will be hard to carry your relationship as of this state you love her means you comitted to her dont think of marriage go ahead and believe in love