which is the most important thing that last long a relation?

I think this was a very good response. I agree with it but I think there is one more bigger. Love. You can have a friend with trust understanding and forgiveness but you cants have a lover without love. Next to love would be trust, understanding, and forgiveness. My philosiphy is and I quote (Myself) "Love isn't about never doing anything wrong and having a perfect relationship with your partner. It's about loving them enough to forgive them for what they have done, whether it is thier fault or not. Love is about understanding and forgiveness, even if sombody does the thing you hate most, if you truely love them, you should find it in your heart to forgive them." What does everybody else think about my post/quote?

Would you still love and forgive if your partner did not love you and continued to do things to hurt you? I know I would and have been doing. Sometimes we love someone so much that we are ready to sacrifice everything for them.

You will totally get mad and angry when you found out that your partner lies on you, cheated on you and even hurt you. Sometimes, you really unable to control what you are doing because of LOVE. You will be willing for him to hurt and cry for him even you know he won't give you happiness. Love power is too great. Therefore, you need to think and take the right choice. My ex broke me many times but I still not giving up on him. He hurts me everyday and I really can't afford too lost him. In end, I left him. I think in another positive way. That is give him what the choice my ex ask for. So we broke up. As long the opposite is happy I am happy. That is what I told myself and now I have a BETTER GUY.. I LOVE HIM 100 times more!!! haha.. I'm crazy..