Do you felt jealous for sometimes? Are you a Jelous person

Philippines
September 20, 2008 5:45pm CST
Out of my experience I don't know if i am just selfish or a jealous person. Here's the story about me, I've been a trainee in a one of the prominent company in our town. My employer was a couple the got 6 kiddies. The eldest child was already seventeen years old, the second one was fifteen years old, the third one 12 years old the youngest was 10 years old. The Father was the one who is fetching and relaying them at school then sometimes he is dropping his kiddies in the office. Where we were there the staff is present. The Family are very closed to each other. Father daughter relationship was very intimate like they are kissing in the lips even we are around and for them that is just normal. biting her daughter anywhere., carrying his daughter even the 17 years old. they look like not father and daughter they look like couple because because his eldest daughter has grown up into a Lady. They kissed a lot in the lips, embracing too much and i couldn't help myself but to went out, walk out and just return to office after thirty minutes (30) and if they are still doing it, I go out again. I couldn't imagine what they are doing. For me isn't normal.. For them it's normal they are doing it everyday. Our work in the office sometimes stock-up due to their ceremony. How i wish the father (my employer) wont drop by his kiddies to the office..
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
21 Sep 08
Well my family like kissing and hugging a lot. However I do have a question mark and a lists of dos and dont's. I don't tolerate kissing on the lips by strangers and even between relatives. In my opinion a kiss on the cheek means one thing but a kiss on the lips means a totally different thing.
• Philippines
21 Sep 08
i understood that kissing in the lips is totally a different thing. But you have said here kissing on the lips by strangers and even between relatives, you didn't mention yourself here. means to say that it is okay if the father and mother will gonna do it to their kids? am i right?
• Canada
21 Sep 08
This doesn't sound like jealousy or being selfish it sounds more like something is going on between father and daughter . I love my children very much and I am close with them yet I do not kiss them on the lips . That is just too intimiate and is left for your partner not your children . I am not saying when they are babies there is anything wrong with that but as they grow older you have to respect them and this shows too much love in a way that would worry me that more was going on in the household then just loving one another . A kiss on the cheek or a hug is sufficient . Back to your question , yes I have been jealous at times but is not something I feel very often . I would not consider myself a jealous person because I am happy when my friends and family get something , I don't feel that I am more deserving then they are . I believe we all feel some form of jealousy at some point in our life for whatever reason but this is because we are human . It is how we handle this jealouy that determines how jealous we are and what we are like as a human .