love sick

Like I tell people all of the time, "If you are going to hurt me then hurt me phsycally as I can treat that." Getting your heart broke is one of the worse things in the world you can get since with the chain of emotions there is love on one end and hate on the other. With love being such a strong emotion it can quickly turn to hate with enough pressures in the center of the chain. Hate is a very deep hurt that never heals since once it heals it is no longer hate. Think of it like this...... here is your emotional chain: LOVE____________________________________________________HATE As the pain of heartache gets applied to the center it draws the two ends togather: LOVE___ ___HATE | | | | |HEARTACHE| As more time is spent thinking about this heartache it gets heavier and heavier thus creating a LOVEHATE combination. A part of you wants to hold on to the love yet the rest of you cries out for hate and vengence thus inner turmoil. This is why the old saying goes "If you love someone SET THEM FREE" because if you dwell on the heartache then it will continue to get worse and worse until it turns into hate and then you are in constant turmoil. The reason it hurts so much is because it is an EMOTIONAL pain and there is no medication for that, with physical pain you can take a pill or do some therapy but emotional pain is like that itch that you cannot scatch nomatter what you do or who else tries to help as ultimatly you are the one that needs to let go and move on. I hope that this makes a little sense to you and helps a little. HAve a great night and Happy MyLoting!!!

true ,pain will be there and time can only heal a broken heart. There are two kinds of love that we have to get into , one with our emotional feeling towards another and the spiritual love of God. Man created by God's image, and by commandments thou shall not have other God before me. If we consider deepening love to another, as idolizing him, giving yourself in to a pit, your violating the commandment. And as God says he hate people who love more than He.So why suffered when love is lost, its not yours to keep, because God has sent someone where love can be yours forever.Don't hurry in love, let the will of God answered your prayer, so you will feel that pain any longer.Its not difficult to treat if your mindset and your heart focus to God's will.

It's because our love as human is a demanding love. As a human, If we love someone, we expect that the person we love could at least meet our minimum requirement by treating us right and love us back. So, if the fact is otherwise, it will surely hurt us the most.