Its hurt to know that the peole who hurt you never realized .................

I know what you mean... Like ever since my brother was born, I was never treated the same in my family ever again. They treat my brother as if he's their only child, and it makes me feel like i'm the babysitter, being there just to fill their spaces when they're too busy or when they just can't be bothered. Sometimes during dinner, my brother will talk about how his classmate have something he doesnt have, and my parents will tell me to use my allowance to buy it for him, and it sucks, because i can't fight back, or else something even worse comes along... And also, sometimes when my brother is down, they put me down in front of the family just to make my brother feel better about himself. I almost cried the other day, but then i couldnt... anyways, enough about me. If you're afraid of loosing him, and you don't want to get hurt again, you can try talking to him...tell him how you feel about the situation, and maybe remind him to be more careful and think about your feelings before he acts, or else you'll end up not loving him as much... trust me, i know. it might not seem possible for you, now, for your love for this person to decrease, but it is possible to happen, and i've been through it... good luck to all mylotters and happy mylotting :)

yes it is a hard one, sometimes people only see surface things and never look what is in the heart of a situation, I have been in many situations like this with friends, so much so I am at a point now I am not the one that goes out of my way to prop the friendships up any more, but when it is someone very special it is worth putting all the extra effort in, good luck yo you.