is it ok if i give him a flower?

@bombshell (11256)
Germany
September 21, 2008 2:02pm CST
my male friend is sick and he is now in hospital.is it ok if i givi him flower?or whats your idea?
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I would say, no problem - so long as he's not in the ICU or is there for breathing problems.
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I learned that they don't allow flowers in ICU when the former roommate was in the ICU.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Sep 08
thanks a lot.at the moment he is in intensive room.
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@ellie333 (21016)
21 Sep 08
Hi Bombshell, There is no reason why you should give him a flower if he is poorly in hospital. I sure he would be very touched by i. I hope he is well on his way to recovery. Huggles. Ellie :D
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
21 Sep 08
thanks Ellie,ok i will give him flowers thats all i can afford anyway.
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@ellie333 (21016)
21 Sep 08
Hey Bombshell just the fact that you are going to be there visiting and thinking of him will be enough so there is no need to spend money anyway, a hand picked bunch of flowers from a garden will mean just as much. Ellie :D
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@littleowl (7157)
22 Sep 08
Hi bombshell I see no reason not to give your friend a single flower as long as you know he will appreciate it which he probably would cos each time he looks at it it will remind him that you care..littleowl
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Sep 08
thank you.yes i gues the flowers is sweeter than anything else
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
it depends on the reason why he is at the hospital. he might be allergic to pollen that can make him feel much worse if you give him flowers. give a guy gatorade or energy drink to get back his energy. from a guy like me i am not a flower person, i would make me feel better if i get a cake or energy drink. hope for the speedy recovery of your friend
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Sep 08
thank you,thank you so much.i hope he will be fine soon.
@mands61123 (2098)
22 Sep 08
Yes and a get well card i'm sure he would like that hun we got my friend flowers for his leaving do he likes flowers alot of men do so why not. Hope he feels better!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Sep 08
thanks for your idea.
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
21 Sep 08
whats bad in it? hehe guess if they are not red! !
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
21 Sep 08
thanks.so what color then?
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
22 Sep 08
yes its ok to give a flower. I gave my dad some and they were put in a little car was cute. also I would say some books or Mags.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
22 Sep 08
your welcome!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Sep 08
thank you Lakota.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Hi bombshell, That will be fine, I am sure that will bright his day! I have seen people in the hospital before who received flowers even if they are male and I know they appreciate it!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Sep 08
thank you che.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
24 Sep 08
Yea. Why not? I'm sure he will appreciate it. Have you visited him? I hope he is feeling much better right now.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
25 Sep 08
yes is feeling better now.thank you.
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
21 Sep 08
Flowers are fine. But having been in the hospital a couple of times. There is really only so much you can do. If you friend is well enough to read, I would buy him a good book.
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
21 Sep 08
A CD or something else to pass the time, lol. It can get really boring in that place;)
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
21 Sep 08
ok thanks CD is acceptable.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
21 Sep 08
thanks jonesy. but he is not a type of book reader.
• United States
21 Sep 08
i dont think there is anything wrong with it and i have done it with my hubby but i dont know him and how he would react either.. or your relationship with him..
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
21 Sep 08
its just a friend.ok i will give flowers.
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@Vladilyich1 (1454)
• Canada
22 Sep 08
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you giving him flowers.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
25 Sep 08
thats why i thought thank you.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
21 Sep 08
Flower is such a nice gift either it is in any gender and you could also add a bunch of fruit,........
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
21 Sep 08
ok thank you iya.he loves mango fruit how i wish i could buy a tropical mango.
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
Of course it is okay to give him flowers or you can bring him some food though you have to check it first if he can eat it. Or you can buy him a book to read while in the hospital bed so that he wont get bore.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
25 Sep 08
thank you.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
22 Sep 08
That is a nice thought. I would like the idea. Who ever have said that flowers are for women only?
@aj2006 (1534)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
Flower is okay for a sick friend regardless of the gender my friend, that's my own opinion.. :) and if you like you can add some fruits or a fruit, LOL! ( hope it's not expensive there ) its like reminding that An Apple a day Keeps the Doctor Away! hehehe.. have a great day friend!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Sep 08
hehehe yeah i gave him apple but somehow he is not happy.so i gave him banana.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Sep 08
bomshell of course its okay who doesnt like flowers. he will be pleased that you thought of him and sent him flowers. It will brighten up his hospital room and show that you really care for your friend
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Sep 08
thank you Hatley,thats what i thought too.
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
22 Sep 08
I think its ok to give him a flower and maybe you can add some fruit as well if its ok for him to eat some fruits. I hope that your friend will feel better soon. Happy mylotting.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Sep 08
thanks Cjay.anyway he is fine.
@Anchopy (1453)
• Paraguay
22 Sep 08
It's ok to give him your flower.. give it to him bombshell.. he would like it and will make him feel better
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
22 Sep 08
thank you.
@danram (49)
• Malta
22 Sep 08
yes i think it is a good idea to give him flower. i am sure he will appreciate it and see that you are a good friends. i would surely give someone in hospital a gift maybe some flowers, clothes, get well soon teddy bear etc. every friend will appreciate this gesture.