tellin HIM that love takes time?

I wouldn't say that after you are married no way! That's an impending fight and then some! Now I have said to dh when we were dating that for him it was love @ first sight & for me it took some time for me to really love him. Wich is why we were engaged for 2 yrs before we married as I wanted to make the right decision. If you think wedding's are expensive, divorces are more expensive & take alot longer to sort out!

If a person gets into a marital relationship without love then they really didn't think over their feelings. I think that people should be honest about their feelings from the beginning so that no one feels hurt when the other one just falls out of love, or just doesn't think that there is a connection. Marriage isn't a crush, it's love, real love, and hopefully true love.

i really don't think its a good idea because it can cause a lot of problems within the relationship. things like that should be discussed before the marriage. i think the honesty is great but there is a time and place for everything.

Absolutely not. Marriage should only be for love. Marrying someone just because you think he's a good person is a bad idea. You should only get married when you're in love.

I always say that you should marry the one that loves you ,not the one that you love. Oh but dont tell him.no no no bad idea.

you shouldnt marry someone til you know you love them and want to spend the rest of your life with them. If you just like someone...hes a great man etc.. maybe you are not ready for what marriage has to offer you

Oh my god, that's not healthy for a relationship. Im sure you hurt him deep inside and you are hurting yourself too.So why marry him if you don't love him? Why don't you wait that you will fall in love to him and then proceed to marriage? Happy posting.