i cannot express, i cannot say

That is okay,even you can't express in front of him ,but in your inner heart you love him,that is enough ,you don't need to worry about that.Actions speak louder than words.

send him a hallmark card...that is what they are there for...for people who cant express their feelings in words and speech, let the card do the talking for u...and give it to him with a nice candlelight dinner.

Suck it up. If he wants to hear it then say it. It won't do you any harm, and you know it'll make him happy. Isn't that what's most important? Swallow your pride and tell him the truth, that you love him. Even though we show our loved ones that we love them, TELLING them is different. It assures them that they're not only working on assumptions or interpretations. It's not that they doubt us, but it's just psychology. We have to hear things.

I think different people express their love in different ways. Some people prefer a "show you love them, rather than tell them" approach while others seem to be able to quote poetry off the cuff to the one they love. I think both ways are perfectly acceptable, as long as the one you love knows you care in some way. Does your husband tell YOU that he loves you? If you really want to be more vocal about expressing your love for him, maybe easing into it slowly and casually might be a good way to start. A "hey, love you" as he's on his way out the door gets your point across without feeling too mushy. And possibly, the more you do this kind of thing, the easier it'll come to you. The previous poster had a good idea about writing notes, too. You'd be showing/telling your husband how you feel without feeling too self-conscious about it. :-)

The first thing is, not to stress about it too much. Mainly because if your husband loves you then he most likely knows that feelings are mutual. Sometimes though, it is very necessary to show your significant other that you do love them. One thing I can advise you to do is maybe buy him a card and write in it how you really feel about him and tell him you love him. Then maybe you could leave it in his car....on his pillow, you know, somewhere where he would be surprised. I know as a guy, something like this would really make my day. Maybe you could also send him a text message saying you love him, not for any particular reason but just because ya know? Try this......see how it works for you