alone but not lonely..
By mayrose
@mayrose (323)
Philippines
September 21, 2008 8:47pm CST
im single right now and as of now im happy, i enjoy being with anyone without thinking that someone will get mad because im out. I have my freedom to do anything, i just know how to enjoy and have fun with my life, Its nice to have someone taking care of you but maybe my family is giving me too much love that i don't look for anyone to love me more. I don't want to brag or saying that i can live alone it just that thats what i feel now, share to me your thoughts about it.
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
1 Oct 08
Ditto - what you said..
I am happier and Might I add less stressed now than when I was part of a couple.
Since i have been single and on my own. I have got my own house, 2 cars. 4 dogs.
a slew of cats. And I couldn't be happier. and here's the funny part. One of my exes - who said I couldn't make it on my own because I was co-dependent (he who went to live with another girlfriend) Moved in with me at my HOUSE because - he had no place to go and couldn't afford his own place.. lol so now 5 years later - he is still renting a room.. and Has NEVER lived on his own.. Who's co-dependent? MEN. I got the last laugh.
signed. Single and lovin' it!
@livia527 (26)
• United States
1 Oct 08
that is great u dont need anybody to make you happy the single life dosent have to be a curse. actually you have more time to take care of yourself and your goals and focus on things that are important to you.When you look for love sometimes you dont get what you want so it is better to just be yourself and do you...
@flance101 (137)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
me too. :) i am single and i am happy. :) it is also true that i am more free than before. i dont have any regrets, its just that my ex used to be too jealous. though im a not flirty, i am very friendly.
i am also currently not looking for someone. in time, maybe i'll love again. and when that time comes, i know i have to readjust my priorities. so as of the moment, im enjoying the things i do, socializing, and working. also, i am have more time for myself now. :) i have this time to work for my dreams, if i can be at least a step closer to them, then great! :)
it is nice to know that there are a lot of women who can withstand being single for quite a long time. :) viva to us! :P hihi..
@friend4u_0417 (75)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I know how you feel but, family is always more important than freeom.Everyone likes some kind of freedom .I have a girls day where me and some girlfriends take a day for ourselves and go out to eat, get our hair done, and kick it at the mall.Just think about what it would be like if you lost LOVE!!!