Please help me!

Hey, Cathy_Chen, what a pity you love a man you can't be with. You are a good girl because you don't want to hurt others. It's, of course, painful to leave your loving man. Sad, Painful upset, and helpless, right? He is your sun, I believe. Without him, you can't be happy. He must be a charming guy, so you can't help loving him. But unluckily, he's married. To be honest, I think there's no problem at all, since you two love each other so much and can't live without each other, why doesn't he leave his wife and choose to be with you? Love is the most important and sacred thing to you, but not to him, I think. If he really doesn't love his wife now, you two should be together. Ask him to marry you, see what he will answer and then you'll know how to do and how to live heathilier and happilier.

look for other guy you certainly dont want to be a husband snatcher :)

How can you say that you love him? if really you're in love to that guy, i can sense trouble, no one can help you, only your self can help you, you know whats right and what is wrong, study your emotions and your self, you're young, there's a lot of guys out there, no can find guy that is best suited for you.

I think you will be test your self by stay alone 1 day If you can I think you can stay by leave from him you can do it good luck

it seems like three years have had no impact on that mind of yours.. you still seem to be only just a teenage girl crying out for help... come on.. grow up.. it's time to move on.. you don't seem to know the basics of love.. if you are a flower, love's like a butterfly... you cannot press hard on it.. you cannot make it stay... you have to let it go... and if it really loves you... it will come back to you...