what is my problem?

There's no reason to be scared of rejection, it happens; just be yourself. If the girl doesn't like you for who you truly are then she never will. From a woman's point of view we Love it when a man shows his true self from the beginning so we know what we are getting into. Love needs to be nurtured like a seed that sprouts and grows in time to become a beautiful flower. Just like the plant needs water so does Love need to be nurtured but give the plant too much water & it drowns and so Love is also like this. Just be yourself and if the girl doesn't like you then it would have never worked out anyway. If she does like you well then the ice has been broken and you can relax.

I think you just have to be yourself, and just act natural, well if it is really meant for you, it will just happen. Think it this way just let it flow. It doesn't take sometimes just a one date. If you really wanna know her more be a friend first, and don't expect to much. Have a nice day!

I think you need to spend some time with yourself. Learn what is important to you, what type of woman do I want in my life? What am I trying to accomplish? You might want to practice not obsessing about things. Obsession builds until you have no control and cannot function with any control. So if you learn to have control over yourself you can walk into a relationship and give to it much more than the lack of control you would show otherwise.