help me please......

Malaysia
September 22, 2008 10:49am CST
my boyfriend still contact with his xgf, i can feel that he wanna go back with his xgf.... what can i do? break with him or believe him wont do like this??
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7 responses
• Malaysia
23 Sep 08
different problems occur in our life. we need to face it and solve it. have a good talk with your bf. ask he whether he still have feeling on his ex. being a couple you should trust each other and no lies in between. Tell the feeling you have and the feeling that you afraid to lost him. tell him all your heart's word.
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• Malaysia
1 Oct 08
Thanks for your suggestion.... i already tell him my feeling, but he still the same.. he will angry and unhappy when i receive message from my ex-bf, when i told him that i feel, he listen but after few days he will contact his ex-gf again. i think i will lost him soon........
• Malaysia
1 Oct 08
Sorry that I can't help you. No matter what happen, you still need to be happy. HAPPY-GO-LUCKY~ if he really leave you, You have to move your life on. Just take it as a memory. GOOD LUCK and ALL THE BEST IN YOUR LIFE^^
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
Thank you a lot... i will try my best...
@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
don't get mad, get even!!! go back to an old boyfriend or better yet hook up with your boyfriend's best buddy. that will get his attention. hope everything pans out right for you. cheers!!!
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
i had try it before, but it not work.... he just will feel angry at the moment after that he will forget above it.. haiz...... :-(
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
11 Oct 08
Let him go. Sometimes it is the best thing to do. It's better like that than prolonging any relationship that wont lead to anywhere.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
if you love him, then set him free. if he comes back to you then you're meant to be. if he dont, then just post another discussion on mylot and move on.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
17 Oct 08
You need to talk to him. Obviously, he is with YOU. You don't say how long they've been apart. Are you a rebound? If not, it could just be that he has made peace with her. I talk to most of my exes...no reason not to. I mean breaking up was to end the battle...right? I would, however, not let any of them interfere with my current relationship. trust is very important. You need to talk to him. If I don't trust someone, then I don't need justification or proof of why I can't...the simple fact that I don't feel trust is enough to let me know that the relationship isn't right for me.
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
21 Dec 08
If he loves his ex girlfriend more, then probably uou will have to forget him for it does n make sense in loving a person who is not interested in you.
@haidee (4)
• Malaysia
22 Sep 08
I think you should talk to him... tell him what your feeling is when he contacts with his ex-gf. Be sure that this is a talk, NOT quarrel. Maybe he treats the ex-gal as a normal friend only. Suggest to him to put himself under your shoe, what would he feel if you still contact with your ex-bf. (If you have ex-bf). I'm sure he feels you.