Im goin to live my girl friend

Philippines
September 22, 2008 4:31pm CST
hello maybe 2 weeks from now I'm going to live my girlfriend here in the Philippines and I'm going to England for my studies, for almost five years of our relationship this is the first time that we're going to separate, almost everyday she's always here at my side she always caring for me. How can i make it without her, what do you think should I do?
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
Sometimes their are sacrifices that we should take, I know the feeling leaving someone who you love, still their are alot of options to this problem of yours. She could follow you there, but it might take time, or everything can wait for you and her. Or think now how would you communicate with each other then having negative thoughts. This is how strong will be your relationship I think. Anyway it's not letting go,your both still their for each other. Or you could go back after a year or two for a vacation. Think of the solutions not the problems that both of you will encounter. Don't make your relationship to be complicated but make it simple for both of you. Have a nice day!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I think that the best thing for you to do is decide how your going to communicate with her and what time. Figure out what time it will be in the Philippines compared to what time it will be in England. Do this before leaving for England. Also try to plan times to go and see her or bring her up to see you. I think that would be the best thing for you to do. Write her love letters often and package them together to send to her with a gift! I hope that this suggestion helps!
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• Philippines
23 Sep 08
This would hard at first specially when both of you were together for 5 years, communication is the most important in distant relationship, just keep on communicating, even when the going gets tough, just keep the communication, its the most important. Good Luck.
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
i know that long distance relationship is not easy you guys had 5 years of your life together so do not end it, instead why not make alternatives while your away and if you have time you still have the chat, email and all the options communication is the key to also feel that the relationship will work for as long as you guys have that it will, i believe in love that even if your far from each other you can feel the presence if its really true.. just do not live with expecting so much so if it does not work you can still be friends.