love moves in mysterious way

I think It is no about choices. I think everything we have to go through in life is because we are going to learn something from it. Sometimes we win, sometimes we loose, that is what makes life interesting. When you feel that you love someone, give everything from you in the relationship. Even if that person is not for you or things dont work out, you are going to feel good that you give the best from you. Just remember that love is more than a feeling!!!

I think it is better to feel love then not habving love at all. How would we know if it's really for us or it was meant to be. I think it's only time that can answer that. No one knows what will happened next, cause some relationship it's not meant to be even it takes years. When we go to a relationship or get committed, we should always think the consequences, that hurts and pains are their to face, and were ready to face it no matter if it doesn't work out,. In love you can't ask for a return. Their is no guarantee. Even we made a wrong choice or we failed it's part of our journey, at the same time we learn and grow from this. No relationship is perfect,were just human and we commit mistakes. Nothing is permanent in this world just your self. Well yes in someways it moves love moves in mysterious ways, it will always be even you don't search or your avoiding to fall in love it will really come along the way. Even letting it go,even you love the person,setting it free,but if it comes back it was meant for you sometimes, don't you think it moves really in mysterious way? Have a nice day! God bless!

Hurmm, all your questions are associated with what will happen in the future and it is pointless to ponder on the future too much as people who does always ended up doing nothing and are going to be afraid to take risks. My friend is like this and she keeps on pondering on whter her bf is going to cheat her or not. It will come to a point where she gets freaky. There is no way to predict the future. All we can do is be a loning partner and practice 'give-and take' and then hope that everything will be fine.^^