I am sad

hi lucky! whatever circumstances came on your way right now, your still lucky, cause that is your name, hehehe......... im just kidding to make you happy, lucky, be brave, that is only a trial, just keep moving, make yourself busy, life must still go on..... maybe we meet each other soon, i will make you happy, ill never know how to hurt a woman

Don't worry,there must be some unhappy things in our life,but it will pass soon,you don't care it.When lot of unhappy happen to you,you must feel sad,maybe you think why i am so unlucky,why i met this situation,and when you want to talk but on one can hear carefully and you will be sad.You are the only person who can repair yourselves,all things depend on you,paying more attentions on other side,you will get more than you think,and other side of life will show.

The best advice I can give you is only an honest one. Go to a church and pray. I do that every morning and you would not believe how it works. I, too, get tired of the crap around me. Here in my office the jerks I work with talk the same rubbish day in and day out. Thank God my work takes me out into the streets ! Simliar problem in a different way. Then ask God to send you a meaningfull relationship.

[b] I can understand how you feel. But trust me, looks hardly matter. I know, in your situation, you can feel the agony from within, but who can you blame? No one. And you don't need to either. The true spirit of living is by loving to live, and by loving that FACT that you live. Love yourself, don't care about what others say unless its a criticism about your character, or work. You can't take up criticisms about things you can't change. And anyway, these things, do remain for some time,even cause depression at times, but finally end with time, and this is a known fact. So ignore thinking of it, see the options,, what all you can do, and constantly believe, that things will get better with time, so you have to hold up with hope. [/b]

Sometimes, life is like this. when you are sad no one takes notice of you. But somehow, there are people who notice but they just do not want to ask you, confront you as you might start feeling sad again. Go wash your face and look into the mirror and tell yourself that you do not need anyone. Be independent. I know somehow along the way there will be one good guy who loves you, appreciates you for who you are. There are many people who are in the same boat as you. so rest assured, your time will come soon. hang in there babe. :)

Hi, I can understand your situation. Poor you. It is miserable while you're gong through it. After a while, this pain will slowly fade away and you will wonder what you saw in the guy that ditched you. Remember, there is a God above, and he knew that this guy did not deserve you. Pray to get out of this and that next time you get involved, it will be someone who loves you for yourself. About your parents, every one is different. One one side of it, it is very irritating. But on the other, who else did your mother have to talk out to. YOU. She can just blow up with you, is it not? And remember she might have been going through this for such a long time. Just think about this: Your boyfriend left you and see what you feel. Your mom is married to you dad and goes and lives with another woman. What is it like? I'll pray that God grants you peace and happiness now and always.

You are right. Mylot is the best place to vent out your feelings and emotions. You are actually doing the right thing. You should speak your heart out and hear others' advices so you may feel the support of the people around you. Be happy. I know more good things will come your way. More blessings to come.

I'm so sorry to hear you my friend. Even though I do not know you I can understand your pain and depression. Cannot think about anything to tell you. However, we face ups and downs in your lives. Not every day is a sweet day. Also remember not everyday is a bad or sad day. There had been many reasons behind your BFs leaving. You might had known that it would happen. I don't ask you to not to worry. What has happend is already happend. There would be something for future and there should be something for you to have a hope. Thinks about it. If you feel like crying, go ahead. Cry. You will get some relief. Regarding your father, again it is a sad situation. It must had been there always. So do not think much about that. Have a hope of something and try to be happy of that thing. There is huge community with you in myLot. They are your unseen friends and there for you when you are sad.

a few days ago, i have the same feeling. for love. i have nothing to say. we can't day who is right, who is right. just feel it. if you are suitable, try to cherish it. if you are not suitable, depart is a good day to solve problem. world is big, there are so many good boys if you are good at discovering. please don't cry, girl, time will solve all.

wish you happy every day,I believe your everything is gonna be alright.

Hi lucky we all face bad times and don't be sad ....i am sure everything will work out for you ..........why don't you talk to your mom how you feel about the situation ......and i hope u will meet someone special ....good luck ...be happy

Best wishes with you! You should make your mother happy just for you are her daughter. You should repect your mother for you are alse a women.

don't cry.be happy,and you'll find a better one . best wishes

I know the feeling Lucky. Just a day filled with nothing but stuff you don't want to hear and stuff that you don't want to happen and it feels never ending. One by one each even picks at our nerves and pushes us a little further until you are in a complete state of frustration and despair. I'm sure most people have experienced a day like this before. don't let these little events/words or whatever have you get the best of you. Life is too short to be affected by stuff like this. Tell you mom you don't appreciate her and her hate talk of your father to you all the time, if you have to hang up the phone she'll get the point. Some people can't gain weight because of their metabolism, i've seen it time and time again in friends i've had. Do your self a favor, just take a moment..get away from everyone and everything and breathe, listen to some music, exercise, take a nap if you'd like..just do whatever will take you away to your "happy place" or vent. I had a couple of these type days when i was in college and i would just go to the student center gym and beat the punching bag and run a mile around the track...always made me feel better. Keep your head up, you'll be ok :)

I am so sorry to hear about your bad day and can relate to some of what you have said . I am too thin as well and can't seem to gain weight and never have been able to and it seems the more upset I am with a situaiton the harder it is to think about eating . My mohter does the same thing and goes on and on about my father and all the things he did wrong and blames him for everything . Like you I don't want to hear it . She made him my father , I never asker for him to be my father , she chose him for me and I love him and I am going to conitune to love him , no matter how she feels about him . Again I am sorry to hear about your boyfriend but I am sure you will find someone else and this person will treat you like you needed to be treated . Obviously this was not the guy for you and it was his loss not yours . If he couldn't see who you were and what kind of person you are then he was not meant to be with you . You want someone who will love you for you and want to be with you always . I know this is really hard for you right now as it is so new but you deserve someone who will treat you with respect and kindness and when you start to feel better about the breakup then you will be able to find someone like this . Best of luck and take care

Hi Luckycat. That's a sad story but i do not feel any pity at all because every people has its own trials in life. I encourage you to treat those heartaches you have right now as a challenge to be strong and move on. About your mom, you can't blame her saying bad things about your dad because she is hurt of what your dad did. Move on, and take care of yourself. There are no trials or problem without a solution. Life is like a math and science too. Need right formula to solve and have the right solution and answer. So cheer up girl! Show how strong you are.

A parent should never speak ill of the other parent to the kids, even if what they are saying is truth. Knowing the truth about your parents and having the other one try to instill hate are 2 different things. As for teh boyfriend... it just wasn't the right one. Boyfriends come & go until the right person comes along. I know it's heartbreaking, but wouldn't you rather he leave NOW than wait until you'd been married 10 years? I see so many marriages break up in mid-life when it's so much harder to pick yourself back up and start again. Try to focus on the positive things in your life. Make a list of them. Write up something positive to say to yourself each day when you wake up. Keep saying those positive things to yourself throughout the day. Eventually you will realize they are TRUE. Be you!

It looks like you need to get a new man and friend. I know it must be hard. But there are a lot of guys out there. I know if it was me, the best way for me to get over a breakup, esp. if I knew there would be no reconciliation, would be to be with someone else. My mom is the same way. If I tell her something, she only wants to talk about herself, which is why I don't call her as much as I used to. But yeah, put on some makeup, a new outfit, and go have some fun.

I am so sorry that happened to you . I do not know the details of why your boyfriend left, but take time to heal. the comment of your roommate was not nice. If you are trying to gain weight then that comment was probably hurtful to you. I am hoping that everything gets better for you. Try to think of other things to do that you like so that you will not dwell on your pain.