Can we realy on girl who is having guilt of relationship ?
By adiljack
@adiljack (48)
India
November 6, 2006 8:19am CST
can we rely on a girl who thinks having affair without fathers permission is not good and she being guilty of it.but she is not able to leave you even and ask for a time again and againor in other words loves you even.....GIRLS please solve the mystery .........can we rely on such girl
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@joynatarajan (335)
• India
6 Nov 06
I have no idea why so many guys try to be jerks!!! There are two types of girls:
A. The traditional girls, who believe that a boy needs to get her parents' consent before pursuing the relationship with a free mind.
B. Girls who have a "devil may care" attitude with regard to their parents and who change boyfriends by the score.
Instead of bothering about relying - probably you need to look at how you view your relationship and the girl. If you really love a girl, you will want to put her feelings first. So instead of putting before her a dilema of choosing between you and her parents, it would make more sense if you try to take things in hand and settle it. If she is not able to leave you despite feeling guilty, thats called LOVE - get that right!!!
There is no mystery... try getting a book on girls (understanding them) and then you will be clear.
@adiljack (48)
• India
6 Nov 06
i know its love,but there is no stability and if she asks a time like that of 5years so after her studies she will try to make her fathers mind who is not a good person.but i know the girl is best for me.should she will overcome her guilt and make him concent ? the problem is this.
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@joynatarajan (335)
• India
8 Nov 06
Well, In that case what you could probably do is make her understand that it's not fair for her to make you to wait for her that long.
Or further, you guys can discuss it and speak to your parents. But I would suggest not postponing it. Because a relationship of somewhere around 5yrs may not last. People change and their needs change. Five years from now, if you keep waiting, you both might feel trapped in a relationship that neither of you wants to be in - no matte rhow much you guys say you wont change.
Just because she wants to prolong it, it doesnt mean she doesnt love you. She probably does, but her circumstances may be a problem. The best thing to do is speak it out, arrive at a conclusion that is sensible, and stick to it no matter how hard it is - even if it means for both of you to continue on as nothing more than friends.
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
8 Nov 06
She's with you without her father's consent, she thinks it's not good and felt guilty but she refuse to let you go and ask you to wait? hmm..how old is she? how long do you have to wait? why cant she be open about being with you? unless it's with a good reason, i will probably say, be careful.
@sudhagarsingh (195)
• India
6 Nov 06
First and foremost, why do you need to get involved with a girl without her parents' consent? And speaking for the guys out here, I feel it's stupidity to expect a girl to get everything done and prove her love to you. If she feels that she needs to get her parents' consent, she is a decent girl, and that is the sort of girl you should rely on. I know this from experience.
