Why guys run aways from girls?

Philippines
September 23, 2008 4:35pm CST
I always have this question in mind i have known some friends that they run away from girls. When i ask them they have only one answer "she's not my type". But one of my close friend really run away from his girlfriend because he got her pregnant and he's afraid of the responsibilities and the consequences. If you get caught in a certain situation will you run away from it? Or just accept the fact and face it courageously?
8 responses
@shamzy18 (2316)
23 Sep 08
Guys like that run away from their responsibilities they are just stupid should have taken more care but thats some guys for you just carelESS! I feel sorry for the girl. The guys who run away from girls saying they dont like the girls because they are not their type well even girls run away from guys who are not our type lol! . Guys should own up to responsibilities and not run away, they put themselves in to that position and just simply running away will not get them out of that position.
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
thanks for the reply. yes, i know some guys who are really stupid to do such thing like that. running aways makes things worse and if not its your conscienes that will hunt your for the rest of your life. but it depends if the guys has it right? LOL
@shamzy18 (2316)
23 Sep 08
Thats true! might not even have a conscience!
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
thanks for the replies.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
24 Sep 08
i think the main underlying cause is they fear the responsibility to be taken. that can be the main reason always.but also i have seen its due to flirting nature, they think its ended in one and they start another
@fady83 (617)
• Egypt
24 Sep 08
there is a study says that no of girls is exceed the no of men so i think that is the reason
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
Well some men are ego tripper hahaha the more girls they have it facinates them more. Sometimes men are fickle minded then women they change their girls easily. Some thinks it's better to collect and sellect, just to know who is the right girls for them. Some doesn't wanna really commit, cause they are scare to fall in love. Some doesn't want obligations,responsibility and doens't know how to take the consequences of their actions. Well a having a baby doen't need for you to marry her,still you have too do some options or a solution with this problem,but not running away. Anyway it's still my child, my flesh and blood. Have a nice day!
@PRIYANK1992 (1677)
• India
24 Sep 08
Yeah obeviously I face that situation courageously and then Marry with her.If she is good and she have the standard like me.She is of my class.
• United States
24 Sep 08
Cooties is also a prominent factor, but that's just medically speaking.
@Metalchick (1391)
23 Sep 08
Unfortunately in life you often find some guys can't handle responsibility or commitment. They tend to want their cake and eat it and not worry about the consequences until later when it's too late. Sorry to hear about your friend hope she is coping alright. I know during my life I have picked a couple of rotten eggs to date and they often turn out to leave you when times get tough or problems arise. It's a shame a small minority of men are like this you can't really call them men because they obviously haven't grown up. Their still little boys!
• Poland
24 Sep 08
My main thought about it - guys are really afraid of being reponsible. Again... Let's say 18-year-old girl is pregnant. 90% of the guys will run away. Or none of know had stood at girl side :/ Only one of my friends is paying his ex for a child. Before getting around 25-26 guy won't let HIS LIFE ruined, but girl... well.. she has to handle it... Apperance- be fair! You have to be luck to get guy below 30 to get interested in you if you're not pretty and thin. I had that luck ^^ I belive it's sign of intelligence, but oh well. Booooriiing... OK, we all need changes in our life. Guys think (girl too, of course) that changing a life partner is best way. Guys think if it's more than 4 months (I heard that! Sound awful!) that does NO mean to his friend he's in love, but the girl took him as a slave or dog. You know how respect is important, right? o.O I don't mean guys are always bad. I also ended few relationships. Mainly because guy wasn't paying enough attention, was ashamed of me (I'm not fashion slave and dress like guy from last season ^^") or simply wasn't intelligent enough.