Love Delimma
By glechelle
@glechelle (146)
Philippines
September 23, 2008 11:45pm CST
You're with someone for a long time now and that someone doesn't give you any reason to call it off. In fact he's almost perfect. You see yourself spending the rest of your life with him. The thing is, you got bored. Then someone comes along, making you smile again. Giving you butterflies in the stomach. But you're certain it's just an infatuation.
Will you leave the person you're with right now? Will you jeopardize spending the rest of your life with someone who loves you unconditionally to a person who inspires you?
Does being bored a sign you've lost that loving feeling? Or probably you love the person you're with but you're just not-in-love with her/him?
2 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
I think getting bored is part of relationship, once in a while, it's like you know each other to well and you can't discussed anything anymore.I think it's getting to be routinary that is why your getting bored.I think it really happens to all relationships. Try to do something different,romance should go on. Your very lucky to have someone that is serious with the relationship. Seldom you can see a relationship that can last now a days. If I were in your situation I'll talk to my bf and tell him that your getting bored, so he will do something about it before it's to late. I wont never think that someone can change her to another one. Cause I might just let go and commit a mistake that I will think for ever. I'll still stick with her maybe if that happens it's like I'm cheating her, and for years she has been with me, accepting me for what I am even my mistakes,I just can't leave her and hurt her. It will take me time to think and I wont be abrupt. Especially if she's too nice. Even I like someone or infatuated or just getting bored I'll still try to work things out right. I'll try to avoid it to happen. Life is so simple why would we make things complicated. Good night!
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
There is a possibility that you may not be really in love with him. Being in love means being inspired. The more you spend time with your partner, the more you become more excited of things to come. Maybe you just met someone with a characteristic that is lacking from your partner but it doesn't mean that he's way better than who are with right now.