In a reLatioNship aRe you the oNe that

United States
September 24, 2008 12:44am CST
usually breaks up with the other person or the one that is broken up with? I know that there are many who have never been broken up with or that have always been broke up with, I just wanted to get a view on this subject because I recently went through this again for the second time and I was confused on how to feel because I have always been the one to end it and now he did and well I accepted the fact that things were not working out, since I was the one who initially ended it but he insisted on making things work and then quote "breaks" up with me. How do you feel when you break up with someone or when you are broken up with? Any comment will go thank you for reading.
4 responses
• United States
26 Sep 08
I usually get the crappy end of the deal and get broken up with but every now and then i do tend to break up with them if something isnt okay or going right.
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• United States
3 Oct 08
Thanks for your response and for sharing what end you are usually and that you do also tend to break with them when something isnt rght
• India
24 Sep 08
I have no practical experience either to break or having been broken with. We have perfect relationship and I think it will go with us but do not know who will go first from this world,all it is in the hands of almighty. I listen and read about the broken relationship. I have tried in two or three relationship to avoid breaking. In my thought the breaking away may be really paining and hurting. I do not know how the people break so easily and opt for the other. If either of the partner has a strong will power and avoiding breaking.
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• United States
25 Sep 08
THank you for your response and for sharing your view on the topic and for also stating that you carry a great relationship with your partner that is a great thing.
• United States
28 Sep 08
Well im usualy the one who breaks a guys heart!Not to sound like a bad person but sometimes it feels good to be the one who ends a relationship.Only becouse you sometimes feel like you had the power to do that!
24 Sep 08
I'm usually the one that get's broken up with occasionally I break up with them but only if they do somthing drastic the reality is no one is perfect
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• United States
24 Sep 08
Thanks for your response and for giving input on the subject and it is true no one nor shall ever be perfect. I just have some friends who have never been broken up with and others who have always been broken up with and it varies so I wanted to see different views.