I hate my self!

tyler1900, hey easy man.. i konw there is really one point in our life that we hate ourself.. i haven't seen the the anime Zuko that you were telling about but somehow i managed to check out who he is. and this where i realy understand your situation. i've been there before. and i know it's really hard & difficult. i know that you've been trying hard to excel at work and you seem like nothing is working. but you know what? everyone is experiencing that. there's one point in my life that i feel so frustrated and dissapointed in what is happening in my life. like i was a complete loser. that's one hard fall in my life but i learned to stand on myself. how? i poured all of my dissapointments, my failures & hatred in writing. i actually did finish writing 2 notebooks. and you know what? from negative things that i wrote, i came up with the 2nd notebook with the positive side of my life. as difficult as it may seem we need to be firm. i'm not suggesting hat you put it in writing but you can try too. if you think blogging your emotions is easier for you then do it. you need to release all the negativity in your life. in your case, if you feel like you're working too hard & you feel like it's not making a difference, my advice is that don't push yourself too hard. learn to know your capacity or limit. life is like a river, it's a continuous flow. and in order for you to survive it's either you swim or you go with the flow. i know you've been swimming hard but right now since you seem so tired, go with the flow. hope i helped you with this one.

actually not that much..there is no wise men living in this world that cannot commit a single mistake..him..maybe try to change your habit..try not to talk a bad words specially when you hang out with your friend..that can be easily practice..your attitude maybe affected by your neighbors or friends..don't hate yourself too much..try to practice it..you can do it..just change your attitude..

Don't hate yourself. I you need someone to share what is going on in your mind. Please do share your problem here. I think it will be better for you since different kinds of people could give you advice. They could give advice on how to prevent the wrong that you've done and how can you recover from the wrong that you've made.

Hello tyler welcome to MYLOT. I think you need to develop some self esteem. Try and buy some of the motivating cd's/books that speak about developing one self. Don't put an unreachable goals that you know you will unable to make. Start with some simple steps. You analyze yourself and the outcome is that you don't like what you see. Write on a paper things you like about yourself on one side and things you dislike on the other. After writing look at the things you dislike and try to work on them. I know that there are times one will be disappointed in the decisions that we choose to make but this does not say that we hate ourself. We only hate the decision. Now at work whenever you try and do something is it that you try on your own even though you know that you will need help to get it done. If this is the problem then I will encourage you to always seek assistance. This does not means that you are unqualified for the position. I am a person who think about being a team member and because of this I practice in my work environment. Remember it is not all the time you will be prefect and if you are a willing person it is not all the person will love you. So be who you are and always think positive. I want you to stop saying that you hate yourself and tell yourself that I tyler will think positive thinking because this always have a good outcome. Take care of yourself. Kerry

Hey, your VISAYA aren't you? Don't say bad words, Like PESTENG YAWA! sege ka, magalet si roffa nyan, dong, baka mag punta dyan se rechard, hala ka, haha.. LOL. Just kidding.. You know what, you're not the only one who is committing that kind of mistakes.. Always remember your not alone.. Just always do your best.. Just like the song " I did my best, but I guess my best wasn't good enough" so you have to try hard.. Just like the song " I tried so hard" by bone thugs.. But not like that.. Just be yourself, don't copy or imitate someone to become best, just be yourself.. And if you do have some problem, like the other one said, you can post it in here, so that we could help you, in some way.. And stay on focus, if you're pursuing someone or somewhat or what that kind it is.. You have to stay on focus, There's still a lot of obstacle you have to pass.. So don't hate your self.. have a nice day, and happy MyLotting.. ^_^

i hate my self for loving someone who doesnt love me,bulag na pag ibig, eventhough that i feel that he doesnt care for me i do loving him infact of that situation

I can't say that I love myself a lot - but I'm not going to beat myself up for making mistakes. I just pick myself up and try again. I do wrong things a lot, but that's just because I'm human. I honestly try to keep my big fat mouth shut so I don't hurt others, I feel that is the worst thing I can do. I'd rather not say anything than hurt someone else - that is what I beat myself up about the most.

I do hate myself because I am not beautiful, and perfect shape of body, nor tall height. However, I would not hate myself if I became beautiful, and my body is in good shape and tall.