If You Don't Use It You Loose It !!!

yeah we are of one mind if u do not use it you lose it ,,,,it is really something

In fact until now I am still confused did I ever really loved someone? Or do I really ever loved myself. Love is around me but maybe I am the one who never reallyb appreciated it until it's gone. My love life scale? 1-10 (ups and down)

what love life?

Yikes, about a 2 right now. Bad! But ah, well, I have a busy and full life and friends to spend it with. So when that comes back, it will and I will be happy when it does! :-)

hi cheevee , my love life has just cross a little hurdle, hurdle of trust, and i have passed thru and viseversa,,, so not much but i wll rate my love life atleast 5 out of 10 thankyou

I agreed. My love life is in a mess. This is my second marriage. My first can be said to be an envy to many people but i screw it up. My ex-wife was all that you could ask for a wife. She put me in the 1st place in all her decisions and things she done but i took her for granted. I began to flirt around and stayed away from home for more than half a year. All these time, she was alone in the house waiting for me to come home. What a jerk i was. A scum. I let her down very badly. The last straw came when i brought a woman home and divorce was on the card. We did not have any child. After divorce, there was no remorse in me. I continued to flirt around. I knew my second wife soon and we got married soon after. She was nothing like my ex-wife. She was all you could ask for a lover but not a wife. We had frequent quarrels and arguments. The only beauty that come out of it was the birth of my son a year ago. He really brought me joy and changes my values in life. I began to remorse about my past behaviour and really regret my divorce. Things would have been wonderful if am still with my ex-wfie and have my son. That would be the perfect family. But i must face reality. It is impossible now. Now all i can do and make things right is to take care of the family that i have now and to ensure that my life do not get screw up again by my own stupidity. My love life was once a 9, drop to a 1-2 now i would say it about a 6 and i hope to improve it in the near future.

[i]Hi Chevee, I would say we are in 9, we had adjustments but we managed it and we are both open-minded to talk and discuss about the issue in detail! I appreciate a lot my partner for being very sensitive and patient for me...I would say, he spoiled me sometimes but at least I am very responsible individual! I am very happy to have him and he is one of the best blessings I ever have![/i]

I would say maybe a five. Maybe if she were as old as me, instead of so young, it might be less. But, we both seem to be happy with it the way it is, so that's the important part

i have none. im 61 and a widow. i've tried to start relationships and non work. i think i've lost it sometimes. But if someone starts making it apparent that i can think on it. its right back.

Hi Chevee, I am the same here too, think I have lost it, although I am married he is more interested in his two wheeled bikes then any thing esle and I cannot be bothered, do you think it is wrong? when every other person is obsessed with it and I can't be bothered, and I like my own company to be left alone to get on with things and Mylotting. Tamara.

I am happy that I have a girlfriend right now. I wouldn't say it's a perfect ten but definitely it is good. We have a nice relationship and hopefully we could stay together for always.

Love life? Love Life?? Whats love life. DOnt have one and cant rememebr the last time I had one. All the love I get is from God thru nature and friends. My friends are a great source of encouragement for me and God blesss them all. But I have no guy that tickles my fancy. So i will very happily rate my love life as 1. One for friends and a few male folk who love me and I dunno about.