house wife or working mom?

Philippines
September 24, 2008 2:38pm CST
Which do you prefer? I am a working mom, since we are not that rich kind of family, we have to work hard as we could for us to manage or family. But, sometimes, I miss being at home with my daughter. I wish I could be at home always taking care of her, and do all the things in our house. But nowadays, it's much difficult to be that. Especially when you have all the bills to pay, and you have to help with the needs of your family. Sometimes, I think of being a housewife, but sometimes I also need to be a working mom.. How about you, would you want to be a working mom, or a housewife?
6 responses
@joimarquez (1836)
• United States
28 Sep 08
i have tried always liked being a working mom..although i have tried being a stay at home mom for two years...i got bored and went back working...i love the feeling of getting compensated of my hardwork...when i played housewife it didnt work for me coz i get irritated alot...i think it all works for us hehehe...
• United States
30 Sep 08
believe me i love my kids so much but when i was just staying at home...i got so irritated alot coz i miss working alot....now my kids love me more coz im more fun and we have alot of quality times on my off days.
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
I know what you mean. There are times that i just missed being at home and being with my daughter.
• United States
29 Sep 08
Right now, I am home with the kids. I watch kids out of our home, and stay home with my daughter. So, Im a working mom and stay at home mom both at the same time. But, I have been a working mom outside the home, and I liked being able to get out of the house for a few hours everyday.
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
That's great. That means you can manage your time better than me. :-) way to go super mom!.
@kellys3ps (3723)
• United States
29 Sep 08
I like working outside of the home. It gives me a chance to get away and recharge my batteries.
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
sometimes we also need time to refresh ourselves.
@rainmark (4302)
25 Sep 08
I am fulltime housewife lolz, a mother and a wife to my husband. I want to have a career too. but my son needs me at this moment coz he is only 9 months old. Financially were ok but i want that oneday i have my own career so i can use my degree and help my parents and siblings in Philippines and save for the future retirement happy posting.
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
yeah, I would also want to do that, but financially we need each others help..how I wish I can be at home to take care of my daughter like you.. thank you for responding..
• United States
24 Sep 08
It would be lovely to be a stay-at-home mom if we were wealthy! To be able to afford a maid while I played with my son seems like a dream come true. If I had to clean, cook AND babysit everyday...I just don't know if I could do it. I think my parenting abilities would suffer. Being a working mother allows me to be successful in my own right, and be able to come home and get that big hug from my kiddo. THAT means the world to me!
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
thank you for responding..well we mothers will do everything for our kids...
@taysyd (30)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I'm torn with being a house wife and a working mom. I've always been a working mom. House wife sounds good basically because I'm tired of working! At the sametime, I know I would miss the adult interaction if I were a house wife. Feelings are mixed but if I could find a lucrative work from home job, I think I would go with that!
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
Yes, I also feel that sometimes I want to stay home, but I also want to work. mom's would definitely do all for their families!