My Husband was so mad...
By MrsRich723
@MrsRich723 (602)
United States
September 24, 2008 4:15pm CST
The other day our friends came over for dinner (2 married couples). We watched a movie and played Monopoly. Well, towards the end of the night all of us ladies were in one part of the house and the guys were in another. One of the ladies whom I was talking to (my husbands friends wife) excused herself to the restroom which was down the hall. Once the couples got themselves together and were ready to go I noticed my husband seemed a little bothered. Once they left I asked him what was going on and he said he had to go to our bedroom to get something to show the guys. On his way to the bedroom you have to pass by the bathroom. He said the door was a little cracked and he heard moaning. He said he went into the room and peeked out the hall and saw his friend's wife (the one who excused herself) and his other friend coming out a few seconds apart! He was so mad at the fact that they would do that in our home. Now he's torn if he should tell his friend that their friend is messing around with his wife. I told him he shouldn't say anything because just because there was moaning doesn't mean they were kissing or doing anything crazy. What do you think?
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@ORichBoi (66)
• United States
25 Sep 08
Although that's your husbands friend. I think it may be best to stay out of it. He can't be a hundred percent sure of what happened because he didn't actually see it. He just heard something so it could have been something else going on. I know it's his friend but some things are better left alone.
@MrsRich723 (602)
• United States
25 Sep 08
You're right RichBoi. I think my husband should leave it alone as well. The only thing I see coming from this is a bunch of drama and we don't need that.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
24 Sep 08
Hi MrsRich. I agree that is better to don't say anything because none want to destroy the life of others. Ofcourse they were doing something wrong so why a married woman stay together in the bathroom with another man that isn't her husband? But it is a matter of time to the husband catch them together and it will be a problem of them. Usually none forgive who show the true when it comes to marriage or someone that they love. Better stay quiet about this. What you and your husband can do is never more invite these couples to your home. If something will happen better to doesn't happen in your house because we never know how someone will react in a situation like this.
Have a nice day.
@MrsRich723 (602)
• United States
25 Sep 08
That's a good point about not inviting them over anymore together. That could just cause more problems in the end. I also think my husband should stay out of it because they could all get mad at him.
@vmksvmks (413)
• Canada
24 Sep 08
What can i say Is this speculation and is he imagining things If this is true i donot know what i would do I guess it depends on my friendship relationship ..how strong it is and how important it is to me I am happy it wasnot you because if he was mad with a couple that is none of his business imagine what he would have been like if it hit closer to home Personally i would stay out of it Good Luck and Have a Great day
@MrsRich723 (602)
• United States
24 Sep 08
Thanks. The guy whose wife it was and my husband have been friends since high school. They met the other guy a few years ago so my husband feels like he should tell. I think he should stay out of it to but it's up to him though. Thanks for the post.