he's not that into me..=(

I think their is nothing wrong. Don't think it that way anyway their are still anniversaries to come. Well I know you will feel bad about his reactions, but maybe he had a problems that you don't know and can't tell you about it. Men sometimes are secretive in a way. We don't want to tell sometimes what we feel or problems or give any burdens. But we cope up with it. Not all the time is a good day! If you love him just be their and let him open up to you if not now some other day. Don't make it complicated. Have a nice day!

i dont know whats wrong in him but i think theres something wrong in your understanding too, if its the first time you cant say that hes not into you!, maybe reasons! sometimes being too close at the times of the other having some tensions is bad too! makes the other really feel suffocated! even hugs feel bad! in this situation just talk to him and ask him touch his cheeks! and ask him whats wrong with him leave the hugs and kisses for a while dont think you;ll be pamperd cozy like he MIGHT be doing you, why i said might coz i dont know his story and history with you! If he does this again and again , the ignoring thing and stuff, then just tell him frankly tat what hes doing is not being liked by you! and its not tat he starts doing things forcely that you like, but atleast he'll understand that you are also Important! maybe he just doesnt wanna celebrate and stuff, maybe hes really not into you! theres a l w a y s a maybe!

I am so sorry that you were disappointed like this. I could not even guess as to why your boyfriend reacted like this. I would sit him down and tell him how you felt and ask him about it. have you been having other problems that may be affecting him? If your relationship is not rocky , then I would have to think that there are othere reasons for his behaviour.

It is good when you have someone which can be disconcerting when they do not behave the way you expect them to. I do not get excited about anniversaries. I don't even get excited about birthdays or Christmas. I guess people are built differently and it can give one grief when one expects a reaction that doesn't come.

Maybe he's got something on his mind. I guess you're going to have to try to have an open, candid discussion, if he's not adoring you and making you feel good like a boyfriend is just on duty to do, it's probably best to cut ties with him. It's not worth it at all. You have the rest of your life, you don't need someone who's going to treat you like crap. Good luck dear.

Maybe he has something on his mind, have you tried asking him "what's wrong?" or trying to treat him warmly? If he's having a bad day, try to comfort him? After all, he's more important than the anniversary, right?

[i]Hi Joie, Ohhh..I am so sorry about that...Maybe he has a problem? Anyway, I am sure that when he is ready, he will just share it with you...Just continue your plan and for sure he will love that and you will make him forget if ever he has some problems at work![/i]

we can never tell..maybe he is just not feeling well or he is acting up for a surprise we wont really know...you try to talk it over with him before jumping into conclusions..you might end up concluding not good things upon it...its better to ask than assume...i hope you will sort things out with him and with the special something you preferred for you anniversary do not leave it behind do it as you planned and surprise him...

wow ... you didn't ask him what's wrong with him why he went home earlier than usual? Maybe he is sick or he has a problem, so that's why he looks cold for you ... usually we celebrate our anniversary by dinner, there's nothing special about it, i just love to spend a time everyday together

Perhaps ,i had ever suffered criticisim in the unit.he has not a good feeling.you may forgive him.

You know men can be very difficult especially if they're under a lot of pressure in reguards to their age. The first year anniversary is very special and it shouldn't just be brushed aside. It's an accomplishment of your commitment and should be celebrated in one way or another. You may want to find out what's wrong with him... maybe something happened to him the other day that was on his mind or making him upset. If he continues to act strange then I would be concerned. If it was a one time sort of deal that inconveniently happened on your anniversary day then I'd not let it bother me. You never know... that date could have been the anniversary of something else dear to him that maybe he lost? Just talk to him about it. You also need to reflect back on your conversations and attitudes leading up to that day. Some men get shy in terms of relationships. Especially if you're excited for the special day.