Have you become a better person after being a mother ?
By akpay22
@akpay22 (131)
India
September 24, 2008 11:02pm CST
I have changed. I have calmed down considerably. I was an extremely blunt person who would not think for a second before blasting off anybody. All that came down
the moment I realised that I was pregnant.
They say that the baby is happy if the mother it. My thoughts and feelings became more and more positive which obviously brought about a positive change in my personality.
Thinking twice once for myself and again for my daughter before doing anything ensured that I didn't jump on to conclusions. It made me a lot more tolerant.
Its the most amazing gift of motherhood, to be able to love unconditionally and to be loved back even more unconditionally.
Mothers Rock !!!!
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6 responses
@miamilatte2006 (231)
• United States
30 Sep 08
I must say after becoming a mother I have changed a lot. I don't go out as much, I don't drink as much, and I definately look at life a lot different. My children are my first priority. they eat before I eat, they are cleaned up before I am, I will sacrifice everything just to make sure they are taken care of even if it means i have to stay home from work when I have no one to care for them.
@taysyd (30)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I think I've become a better person after being a mom. I'm not selfish, I put my family first and I'm more considerate to others.
A responsible mother can only become a better person after becoming a mother. If you're a good mother, it's in your blood to become a better person.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Motherhood certainly changes a woman... in my case... i can say that i have matured a lot... and my priorities in life has change... and my change is more like and improvement in my personality... since i need to be a better person for my daughter so that she will have a role model to look up to...
@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
it is true, once you become a mother you will be more mature in a way that you will realized a lot of things because you need to be more responsible now.,before i used to be a easy go lucky person., whatever i want i just go with it., i go to bar every night, drink with my friends, shopping, going to a movie house and not even thinking about the money that im spending.,well, now its different.,i need to control myself in buying something that i really don't need and i always think first of my daughter before me., and it is a good idea! Ü 
@rainmark (4302)
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25 Sep 08
When you become a mother your whole life change. I noticed that it has a big chnages on myself and on my attitude towards life. I am more mature and more positive in life. But sometimes i never avoid to be a big kid. But when i see my son smiling on me i get back to the right track. Happy posting.
@mommyfied (243)
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25 Sep 08
as a matter of fact i have become a better person. i've become selfless and i thought about my family a lot before i even think about myself. i've become more tactful and i watched my language. there's a tenderness in me that was unearthed and i've become very patient.
