Should I forget her?

Well can you forget her ? I mean can you accept that she has made her choice ? If you can then you should keep the friendship.. Else it won't work anyway I think :) Have a nice day..

Dear sonusd,Above all,you should have the courage to face all thing you have met.you should understand that she is not worthy of you to love her.she has vanity .Now you should have s nature state of mind to deal with it.If you can do that,you may maintain a proper relationshio with her .Or please refuse her resolutely.You know what i said? good luck to you.As soon as possible search for loved girlfriend.

It's quite natural that you feel jealous. But my friends, you that she is not the one for you. Simplicity is your nature. Her nature is quite opposite to that. Can you change yourself? Can she change herself to suit you? Do you think so? You only knows the answer. If not possible best thing is to forget her as your lover. But your friendship, came from childhood. It would be difficult for you to keep the friendship as long as you think that you missed your lover. When you do that, you will be able to keep the friendship. What I say is to keep the relationship as a friend with her.

I think you should give up,and consider her as your friend.find a girl who loves you,good luck.

Hi friend. You have really badly wounded from the unfaithfulness of your g/f. But, think it this way. Good thing you haven't married her yet or things will be more complicated for you. What I mean is, you now know how deep is her self control regarding commitment and respect for others. It's up to you whether to remain friends with her. But it's best if you will avoid her for now while you are healing your wound. You want to find yourself and find what's best for you. She's not the only in this world. There will be someone out there who will be willing to give her love and all to you just be patient and ENJOY life. Good luck.

Sorry I am a little straightforward, why waste time on such a superficial person? I mean, looks are important, but it isn't everything. I admit that I am a little superficial, but at the end of the day, you will want someone whom you can talk to, not look at. Come on, how long can a relationship like this last anyway. Maybe you should try having a makeover and be a hot dude she regret dumping =D. Anyway, don't be too sad over it, it's not worth it.

Well, can YOU forget her?Actually, making that decision is very very hard. But from your story, you both seem worlds apart in your interests. What you can do is probably avoid her first, like a cool off. However, you eventually have to talk things out because it will always hang around with no closure. I hope things will work out.

i am sorry to hear that the girl that you like very much behaves you like a friend only nothing more than that now . And i think you don't worried . And you shouldn't forget her . Though she affair with his collegue . But not means that she want to get married to him . so you should n't give up her . And if you are really in love with her. And you should tell her how you love her and not just saying , you should act . And care her . asks her what she is looking for . And your advantage . i think before she doesn't tell you she doesn't want be with you . you should keep relaiton with her .

I think you should forget about her since she really can't be in love with you. As for friendship, she can't respect you much to not even offer you an explanation and just treat you like nothing ever happened. Only you know if you can break the friendship, but she hasn't been much of a friend to you by treating you in this way.

I think you should ask her one last try..you'll never know, she might change her mind and fall for you again..but if she says that she wants you as a friend and nothing more, you should respect her decision..and keep her as a friend..being a friend is better than being a nobody to someone..

Since she show no love to you anymore and treat you as a friend you should just leave her there is no need to jealous of her and make thing worst as she show that she don't love you you keep on wanna act as her boyfriend at last the one hurt the most will be you and you will be embarrass too. But if you really love that girl alot i suggest you give a try to take her back as the success rate is low but you can try touch her heart with everything you have instead of being handsome, rich and so on. You need to make her feel that only love inside heart is true but it do take a long time to do so.So final decision is in your choice.

well, being in love is so sweet..but when it hurts, it goes like hell... such a girl doesn't deserve you at all..based on what you have said, i don't think she knows the meaning of love in the first place! she is only chasing over external features.. love doesn't pay ultimate attention to the external appearance that much! rather; love usually focus on the internal stuff..well, i don't mean to say that we should not care for the appearance! but we shouldn't let blind us from seeing the self! lets say; an unexpected accident happen to the person we love and it has damaged his face or lost part of the body or whatever. if we go away coz of what happened then we dont actually love the person! we only love the imaginative reality of that person. but if we really love him or her, we should stick up next to that person no matter how bad the situation might be... so, what i'm trying to show here is that, you don't have to be sad at all...you should be happy and feel lucky to have known the reality of that girl before going much deeper with someone who never pay attention to the real meaning of love... it is a devastation but be thankful to the circumstances that have shown you the reality of the entire situation...beside, go on with your life and never look back to her with either as a friend nor as a gf..just don't give her an eye..be confident and feel lucky to have known who she is before it is too late... Smiley,

Well friend, keep just friendship with her and forget about love or anytihng, these kind of advanced girls are famous for short term affairs... a guy [Simple] like you [if u are really a simple guy] should not indulge in love or other relationship...as its like "Shadi ka laddu", whoever eats this is not happy and whoever hasnt tested it is also unhappy. Better keep yourself away from this, if u are student.

i think u should keep a minor realationship with her. she already disided to go after another person, so if u can't do anything about it, u should just let it go. i meant i u want to fight for her, than for all means go for it, but just keep in mind that she is the one that made the dissition. i really think u should move on. if for some reason, time has past and u can't forget about her, then u should confrunt her with the problem... i went through the same thing once =\

you are jealous that's perfectly normal you do love her and she knows that so feeling jealous and want to be with her is normal but ask yourself does she worth your love and trust? set aside your feelings for her for a few minutes and ask yourself this she accepted your proposal but then you left for 6 months and 'bang' she has an affair - do you think she is worth it? 6 months isn't long, really when my husband and I were planning our marriage, I was in my homeland and he was here in canada. for one full year of planning I was truthful and loyal to him even though he had to work here so he couldn't stay with me and help with the planning I know that both of you haven't got that far as marriage yet, but consider yourself lucky that you know what kind of person she is before it's too late and yes I mean what I said: 6 months isn't a long time

[i]Hi sonusd, If I were you, it is better to just stay away from her so that you can move on! It wil be hard for you to forget the pain when you will stay in contact and it will just bring the memories... Move on and find another love life and I am sure right time will come, you will be able to be friends again which is free from jealous and pain![/i]

If you can't forget her,then don't,don't even try to. Just keep yourself busy. Think about other things and there is no room for you to consider whether you should forget her or not. Live your life!

Hi I just want to share some advice if you don't mind? About your case first of all as what you said "she accepted your proposal" right? So it means she already greed and confirmed that she like you too. And with this situation, both of you already have been engaged in a mutual understanding, or rather precise confirmation that you are in a "relationship". So like what you said she had an affair, it's completely her fault and not yours, and you should be upset ofcourse because of what she had done. But the mere fact that she cheated on you means she doesn't deserve your love at all. Maybe she's pretty and it's hard to move on without her but I think the best way is to try to forget her, but!....I think if you really love her then try to confront her first and ask her back and tell her how you feel about what had happened to both of you. I think if ever thing didn't turned out well you still deserve someone else, better than her

Moving away as friends is better than breaking yourself.. I am sure its only you who will feel for it anyway no her, from what you have said. She might regret it later. If you are moving away as friends there is a chance for her to get back to you when she understands your feelings at a later stage.

If you really love her, I mean REALLY love her, you've got to tell her exactly how you feel.Don't wait another minute.You've got to know how she feels about you. If she tell you that she wants to be just friends, than my friend there is no way but just to exept that and to move on.By move on i mean you've got to go away from her as far as you can.Because that will be the only way that you can forget about her, maybe not at once but as the time goes bye.