do you listen to your heart or mind

I listen to both, but I would have to say I listen to my heart more than I listen to my brain. There are so many things people do and know they shouldn't because it's not smart, but there is this feeling inside of them...telling them otherwise. In some ways, listening to your heart is more important, and in some ways, the opposite is true. You have do decide what road you're going to follow and the choices you will make.

I listen to both. If you only listen to one or the other you become terribly unbalanced.

I tend to listen to my instincts. If my brain is screaming trouble, there is usually trouble on the way. I avoid situations that are uncomfortable, I avoid people that set my warning bells off the first time, and I listen to that inner voice that tells me if it is okay or not. My heart doesn't come into play until I am already involved in a relationship. And usually, my warning bells from my instincts have been quiet for some time before that happens.