Disobedience ...
By guybrush
@guybrush (4658)
Australia
September 25, 2008 9:03pm CST
As I get older, I find myself increasingly frustrated with being told what to do. The world seems full of do-gooders intent on policing everything - what we eat, where we park, what we wear ... and it's appalling that our local park has a huge sign with just about everything crossed out with a big, red symbol! No dogs, no bikes, no golf, no kites, no ANYTHING! What's the point of a park, then? It makes me want to disobey! Badly! Our so-called democracy is turning into a prison ... we can do as we like - as long as it's not something we're not allowed to do! Blah to that - I feel like taking a pack of dogs and a large basket of sports equipment to the park on my bicycle this afternoon ... and I might even do it in the nude, and see what they make of THAT! Anyone feel like joining me?
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@Arkie69 (2156)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I know exactly what you mean and I agree with you 100%. I was thinking today about the things we could do 60 years ago when I was a kid that you can't do now. I bought my first car when I was 13 years old. It was a 1931 Model A ford coupe with the rumble seat. I paid $35 for it and hauled hay all summer to pay for it. I drove it anywhere I wanted to and was never stopped and asked for a drivers licenses a single time. You could hunt and fish without a licenses about anywhere you wanted to even on private property if the owners knew you. Anyone 16 or older could get a drivers licenses and didn't have to take a test. You didn't have to have insurance on a car to tag it or proof you had paid your personal tax. There was no sales tax on a used car to get a tag. You could spank your kid's bu** and it was no ones business but yours. There are a million other freedoms we have lost a little at a time over the years. They say a lot of it is safety but we were a lot safer then than we are now and had a lot more security.
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@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
26 Sep 08
You are so right, Arkie! I think we were much safer back then, and a lot of these silly rules and regulations are merely revenue raising. There are parking inspectors slinking around town waiting to slap a ticket on cars if they go one minute over the limit - yet they never book people who park in the disabled spaces. I just noticed four police cars on the highway waiting to breathalise the traffic going past because it's the start of the school holidays - yet when we had both our cars broken into a few weeks ago, nobody came. I was asked an hours' worth of useless questions over the phone - twice, once for each car - and no doubt the answers would have been filed away somewhere and never looked at again. It's all red tape and officialdom, and people puffed up with their own self-importance ... yet nothing useful ever gets done!
@Arkie69 (2156)
• United States
26 Sep 08
Morning Guy,I don't understand why people have sit on their hands and allowed all this crap to be put on us. You are right most of these little laws are just to rob the public of even more of their hard earned money. At some point we are not going to have a choice other than to stand up on our hind legs and tell someone we have had enough. If we don't we are going to wind up without any rights that we don't pay for.
This little one horse town I live in is a good example of what's to come. It was in the local news the other day they are putting together a bunch of rules and regulations that puts a bunch of restrictions on pet ownership. Some of the stupidest stuff I ever heard of. If you don't follow it to the letter it can cost you up to $500. For one thing you must have a pair of any pets you have. You can't have just one dog or one bird or whatever. You can't have a dog withing 50' of your neighbors house. There are hundreds of 75' and 100' lots in this town so these people can't even have a dog. It is designed strictly to raise money. I'll get off my soap box now and hush.
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@ellie333 (21016)
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26 Sep 08
Hi Guybrush, I will come and rebel with you, this is crazy a park is for doing all these things, I saw an open air swimming pool that basically said the same no balls, no splashing, no food or drink inside the fence area the works and I thought what ever hapened to people playing and they wonder why kids get bored these days. I can understand a dogs on leashes one in certain areas but not all and not banned completely. In our local park the childrens swings and slides section has cattle type grids around it to stop dogs getting in to that bit but they are allowed to run free, there is a skate park and also a lovely green area with a pond and lots of tress and the only rules are pick up after dogs and pick up litter, bliss. This is how it should be eh! Huggles Ellie :D
@ellie333 (21016)
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26 Sep 08
You had better move to Exmouth in England as our beach allows dogs to run free in three sections during the summer month and the whole of the two miles from September through til April. Thats is what dogs should be allowed to do as long as the owner is responsible and clears up eh! Can't wait til next weekend as my puppy will be allowed out for the first time after having had his last vaccination this morning. Huggles Ellie :D
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@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
27 Sep 08
How lovely that you'll soon be able to walk your pup, Ellie! My daughter has a dear little Maltese cross, and when his vaccinations were done she took him proudly for his first walk - and would you know it, she had to carry him home - hahahaa! He's now able to do the WHOLE walk on his own little legs - bless him!
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@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
26 Sep 08
That sounds like a happy park, Ellie! How lovely that dogs are allowed to run free (for once). When I was young, we'd take our lovely boxer to the beach, and she'd run up and down, play in the breakers and have a fantastic time! None of the beaches where I live now will allow dogs - so, even the dogs' freedom has been destroyed. Nice dogs accompanied by their owners ought to be allowed to run on the beach. Strangely, some beaches no longer provide bins - then they wonder why some idiots can't be bothered taking their rubbish home in their cars, and we have beaches strewn with litter which is far worse than a few happy dogs enjoying themselves. It's a mad world!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
9 Oct 08
The last time i looked parks were free and for the people..so let me join you and lets see what kind of stink i can raise..what is it for just show like some model home???
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
9 Oct 08
Thats so sad..I remember days of family get togethers..Mothers getting the picnic tables laid out, dads playing games..and kids running of doing everything and anything...to have fun!
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
9 Oct 08
Gone are the days of parks being free, Rosekitty ... this one isn't even very attractive! A couple of scrubby looking trees, a broken water drinking fountain (which doesn't shut off properly and is always dribbling) ... and children rarely play in it. Then they wonder about childhood obesity!
@mands61123 (2098)
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26 Sep 08
whoo hoo if this is the kind of discussion your posting bring 'em on more more. I'm definately up for it!!! it's like that here no playing ball, you have to have the gardens like this, no doing this, no doing that, blah, blah, blah.
Had a guy from the council calling every day this week about some questionaire survey they want filling it apparently it's extremely important! He's about 12 he's asked on several occasions if i'd like him to run through it with me, it's very simple. (i refrained from slapping him) Apparently living on my estate and being in during the day means i'm unable to read or comprehend anything hes saying. I've politely told him my hot water tap and broken glass in the door is extremely important to me and i will hand to completed questionaire to the workmen when they come to complete the jobs. I read it and it's asking how much i earn, how many hours i work, what i do for social activities, what my religion is, how many hours i spend online, doing what, where, when, my inside leg measurement, what colour knickers i'm wearing. I'm with you i just wish they would all feck off!!!!! Life was so much simpler when i was a lass *reminisces*
@mands61123 (2098)
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26 Sep 08
or wash them what a fab idea and if they question it i can just blame it on my brain or lack of i'll explain that i don't have to use it anymore as society does all my thinking for me! lol
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@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I feel your pain! But it feels like everyone around me is so much worse, and when I do something that is kind of bad but not really hurting anyone, I don't feel guilty anymore! I think, also, that the world is getting more touchy with lawsuits and such. Parents don't let kids climb trees, all sorts of little things. What happened?
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@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
26 Sep 08
I agree with both of you. When I was a child, we had a park near us with playground equipment (the DANGEROUS KIND - long, high slippery dip and a maypole, and one of those long planks that swings. Kids were always breaking various body parts - and being stung by sea wasps in the ocean - but it was part of childhood and we had a fantastic time. There was probably ONE overweight kid in the whole school, too. These days, you're lucky to get one crumby swing in a playground, and they cover the ground with rubberised stuff and sawdust so nobody gets hurt. Not that I want kids to get hurt - but you need a few scrapes and grazes to feel alive.
@seabeauty (1480)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I hear ya guy...I am right behind you.
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@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I understand. And with Obama as President, we'll have even more government intervention. Who wants that?
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@torchablazed (3218)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
Want a company? Maybe we can do something WILD. LOL. Here in my country however, there is no much of these restrictions though, we can still experience "fun" up to these days, the problem with our parks here sometimes, instead of viewing it as a place of relaxation at times, it becomes cheap place due to some 'unwanted case- business' to say, but not all.
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
26 Sep 08
Are you sure kids wasn't on that sign, too, and marked out? Doesn't sound much like a park I'd want to go in. Most parks allow bikes that I've been in. They just have specific places to be in the park. And what is wrong with taking a kite to the park? I thought parks were to enjoy myself.
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
26 Sep 08
I think our Council has successfully made sure nobody uses the park. I think they're worried kites might hit telephone lines - who knows? It would be lovely to see a park full of kids, but you never do anymore. Now and then there's a lone mother pushing her baby in the swing - but that's about it. The swing has a sort of rubber sling in it, with holes for legs to go through - so oldies like me can't even have a go just for the fun of it! Poo!
@renitaperrone (547)
• United States
27 Sep 08
Sadly, I think many of these "rules" are for liability sake. If they allow dogs and the dog bites someone, the city/county could be sued for it. Stupid, but a reality anymore. I agree that it's ridiculous, but I'm sure that is why they do it. Sometimes I'm amazed that playground equipment is still there!
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
27 Sep 08
Yes, it's true they are covering their backs. Lots of it stems from the fact people are so litigious these days, and will sue for anything - even tripping over a stone on the footpath is now somebody else's fault, whereas in the good old days you just put it down to your own clumsiness. Same with the playgrounds - parents are likely to sue if their children hurt themselves, whereas again, it used to be deemed an accident.
@dailywealth (47)
• Nigeria
26 Sep 08
Disobedience is a sin,some time what we call sin might be a divine obedience to the will of God.The evidence of love is obedinence,It very important for us to know that it is good to obey our parents ,our leaders and those that are of higher authority.The rules or command given to us by our leaders are not to desroy us but to save guide us in the journey of life
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
26 Sep 08
It is true disobedience is a sin - but would you obey a person who told you to go and kill people of a different race, for instance? I think we have to be wise about what we choose to obey and what we choose to ignore. The world has become rather a silly place, and there are those who would try to take all the joy from it. Life is too short to obey stupid rules. So I won't.