i love two man

It happens. If you truly love your husband stay away from the old boy friend. It takes time, sometimes a long time, but you can get over it. At first it is very hard. Almost unbearable. You will get to a point though that you will start to resent the boyfriend. It helps, a lot if it is someone that you don't HAVE to see and if he doesn't contact you at all - which in my experience it has been that they don't. After a while you will find yourself getting angry a them and wondering why you ever devoted so much of your self to them in the first place. Eventually the anger will subside as the feelings die. Eventually you will be able to run into them and not have the pangs of desire that used to be there! Some don't believe it is possible to love 2 people at th same time. I have had it happen to me, more than once, but I have gotten through it each time.

If you honestly completely and totally love your husband don't even entertain the idea of anything with the former boyfriend. It's okay to not forget him because he was a part of your life and honestly I don't want to forget my exes because of the impact they had on me. Not forgetting and loving someone are two different things, you could be feeling the love you once had for him which is different from the love you have for your husband now.

Oh, you are married. You have to forget your EX-Boyfriend. I thnk you only need time to forget him.

It happens sometime especially if you have fallen really inlove with your ex boyfriend but since you're already married then you shouldn't really allow yourself to still feel something for your ex. you have to concentrate more on your husband since he;s your present now. i hope you make up your mind or you might lose someone or even both