online dating (is it good or bad)

ohhhh.....u married...ohhh i dint know that:-(....well this was my first experience....i was trying to impress a girl online....i even fixed the menu for our date.....u must have seen it in the mc donald comment....well.....i guess the first experience isnt so good for me....my lot dating not so good.

hi aisaellis22! well, for me, online dating is good.actually in korea it is a fad. well they say it's for desperate people, i guess it just really depends on the preference. in my part, online dating allows us to choose the partner that we want. as if fulfilling some of your preferences or ideals. however, in my experience, i never had a successful one...people are really so snobbish (pinay tlga!) lol! so i just enjoy chatting them online and not expecting to see them in person. clean fun, nothing else which is a bit frustrating. cheers!

i dont know because i married also a foreighner but we met unexpected time and place,its like DESTINY not in dating sites.some friends of mine said guys in online dating are bad this time.they want to show your naked body

A 5-month-old discussion has been excavated for it's merit! All credits to you! Just bumped into this thread as I logged in to myLot this evening! And for online dating, wanna know my experience? I am damn sure you will die laughing! I had met a girl from online chatting in Yahoo Messenger. The display image of the girl was a good proof that she was wonderfully beautiful! After out passionate romance for one and half year, I could discover that my online lover was actually a boy! He just had been making fun of my curiosity! And he told me that he had made jackass many other online chatters many times. Poor me.

hi aisa, I cannot put a period on the statement that online dating is good. I cannot also give justifications if I say that online dating is bad. For me, the goodness or badness of online dating depends on both parties.Just like you, I met my boyfriend in a particular site in the internet. It is not a dating site. It is a site where people can learn different languages. And by that site, we can meet different people and can be our friends. My boyfriend sent a friendship request and I accepted that. Then later on, he sent a friend request on yahoo messenger, and we chat regularly there. Sometimes he calls me phone when I am not online just to ask me how I am. I started to like him because of his nice and caring attitudes. He also treated me as his best friend.Then, later on he courted me and we turn into a deeper relationship. My family has a good impression also on him. Sometimes, if I am not here to chat with him, he chats with my family.We are in our relationship for more than a year now but I still do not see him in person. However, he keeps on telling me that he will visit us here in the Philippines. We have our future plans also like getting married, live in same country and have kids. I can say that I am so lucky having a bf like him which I met online. But my sister is not that lucky compared to me in having a date online. She keeps on meeting other people in the internet whose intention is not good. I just think that maybe online dating is not for her. But as of now, I am very happy with her because she finally find the man who will make him happy. It is not through online. The guy is a Filipino also and they are about to marry soon.

oops!!!im 19...i have not visited any dating sites till now...basically i dont understand wat does dating means...in my country dating is very rare, i hear my seniors telling very rarely that they went for a date....

I think it can be good but make sure that you check out the person before you meet them in person, lest they be an axe murderer or something. My general rule of thumb is I won't meet anyone online who won't tell me their phone number and real name unless it is in a very public place and six people know when I'll be back. Once I was going to meet this guy I met online. He said that he worked at the children's museum in Boston. He said his name was Christopher and he knew my friend Daria too. I asked Daria if she knew any Christophers who worked at the children's museum, she said she did and that he was nice. I also called the children's museum of Boston itself and asked to be connected to Christopher's extension. When he picked up the phone I hung up. When he emailed me later that night about the fact that some strange woman had called and then hung up, I pretended not to know anything. You can't be too careful. Check references first.

I'm already married and I'm also from the Philippines. My two cents worth on this is, it is just quite risky to go on online dating. One is because you don't know if the person is really the person you're chatting with. You don't know if that person is worthy to be trusted. Good for you, you found your husband there. What if the person decides to take advantage of you or something. I'm just very skeptic about these things because it's not the usual eye to eye thing.

I haven't had any experience with dating sites, though i have had an experience of online dating through chatting. I met a girl while chatting online at yahoo, we were from 2 different cities,it started off nicely, but somehow it didnt work out. I would like to give it a try on online dating thru sites, but then most of them need to pay. If you can tell me where i dont need to pay anything for finding a girl for dating, It would be nice of you !

I just want to know the site link from where I have not not to pay.........Because I haven't any experience about it....So I want to go for it.....Reply........

its a from of socializing on the net but of course there disadvantage to get into the point you have to expose your self or your true you, just be careful for every things we have contact even friend can lead us to mistakes and trouble, its much better to keep safe that to risk your life to stranger,

well i dont prefer it cause you have no idea how he or she really is all about ..... people dupe us even when we stay together for long time ......

Your story is one of the best page in the book of online dating , and i am very happy to see such a romantic couple that too your kiss in the terminal, But i dont have that much flair in the online dating , As i have not tried even once , So Sorry . May be in future if at all it happens i will stop by your mail box for some good tips Teacher.

online dating is good thing.it is easy to do and maybe no hang out, get many emails or talk with many women or men in the same time.sometimes you feel nothing from them.online dating is not easy to get trust from others .if you want to know each other more,meet in person.but i knew most of people "see will die".online love or offline dating ? just try both and them we will know the right answer

hiii....i dont have any experience in this as i dont know that such sites existed...but i think its risky 2 go online for dating....but am glad you met your partner thru this...give me the sites.....i am eager to give a try..

i guess online dating is a good way to start to get to know people, but of course, in my opinion, you can't commit to someone until you meet that person and spend time with and get to know better. i think it's safe as long as you don't give in to him emotionally a 100%. thanks.

No, I never tried any online dating and I have no plan also. I find it ridiculous to date a person whom I didn't meet in person, I am afraid of the outcome, or what he looks like. I don't want to marry somebody whom I didn't meet yet.

hmm it is too risky .. because.. when u meet someone you dont know... you never know the chances of what kind of people you'll meet.. i met some of my chat friends.. only after chatting with them for a year or two...there were cases where i heard the girl went for a date with a chat friend and got raped... online dating is like a blind date.. even after knowing all the information about the guy you never know if its true or not... some people fake the information.... once a friend went for an online date.. but the thing was.. the girl (really his guy friend) was making him a fool by pretending to be a girl... and the poor guy was in love with her and so on....

my friend aisaellis its very bad i do join some dating site but what i found was cheating i got a meeting request from the girl but i found out its a cheat bolt so i am not in any of the dating site i do regret to join it happy lotting let the other mylotter too know about these sorts of cheat bolts happy loting good post

i don't see anything wrong with on-line dating as its another way meeting friends and eventually lifetime partners. bad thing is some are using fake identities and are just making fun of others. but if i'm still single and not committed yet i will surely try dating on-line.