Parents VS. Boyfriend
By deandea21
@deandea21 (13)
3 responses
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
First thing to do is to know if your parent's opinion is right about the guy. If they are then ask you boyfriend is he is willing to change the things that you parents disapprove of. Maybe in that manner then you would also determine how long can your boyfriend do to pleas your parents too. I think parents are just protective over their daughters and nothing else. Of course they do not want to learn that their daughter was hurt by their BF. So it is but natural to be a little resistant over BFs. So if I were you try to know why they disagree with your BF and then from there you know what to do.
@deandea21 (13)
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26 Sep 08
I like your opinion... I think ill do that and hopefully things would go smoothly... Thank you!
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@liltunergirl (467)
• Canada
26 Sep 08
My parents have disapproved of just about every guy I bring home. Even though they tell me that he's not the right guy for me, I still try it out to see if they could be wrong. Normally I finally see what they were seeing and I end it. It's very crutial for a parent to have their opinion but it's also very crutial for a child to make their own mistakes and learn by it. Parents need to let their children learn and not fight with them over it. Let them find out he's a looser and let them get a broken heart. I know no parent wants to see their child hurting but that is the learning process. Parents need to stay out of their childrens relationships unless the guy is turning them bad or is hurting their child.
@rainmark (4302)
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26 Sep 08
That depends on the situation and on what grounds why my parents don't like him. I know parents wanted only good for thier children so they are making sure that we are in good hands.If they disapprove your boyfriend because they have a reason. maybe they disapprove him because he is a bad guy. Happy posting.