How do you feel about PDA (Public Displays of Affection)?

PDA - Public Display of Affection
@zuri25 (2125)
United States
November 6, 2006 10:02am CST
Seeing other people kiss, hug, and hold hands in public doesn't bother me. Anything more than that should be kept behind closed doors. As for me and my guy, we keep our PDA's to a minimum, but we don't see a problem with expressing our love in public. How about you?
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12 responses
• United States
6 Nov 06
My wife always show afection in public. We hug, tell each other we love one another (that is no less than 5 times a day I promise) and we've been together 10 years. As a matter of fact a friend of ours used to do the finger down the throat gesture and say "Get a room!" even though we never did anything to elicit that response.
@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
6 Nov 06
That's sweet. It makes me feel good to know that not all marriage ends in divorce. Thanks for the response!
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• India
7 Nov 06
Me too, im going to use this as a sign that some marriages can have the initial passion even 10 years down the line. Congratst to both of you, You guys are really lucky, I wish there were more of you in this world.
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• Philippines
7 Nov 06
i dont mind public display of affection. i think i kinda do the same thing when i'm with my BF. heheh. kiss touch... kiss again.. hugs and all that. i think it's quite normal...
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I think it's normal too. Some people don't even think twice about pulling their lover in for a kiss in public. And then their are some that PDA makes them feel uncomfortable. To each his own right.
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@caramello (4377)
• Australia
7 Nov 06
My hubby and I always hold hands when we are out, don't have a problem with that. But some schools in our city are trying to stop a lot of affection, as it is being taken too far!
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I can see how they would do that. Kids these days are getting way too physical way too early.
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• United States
7 Nov 06
It dosent bother me at all. Its a blessing to be able to show your affecting and let other people know that you are in love. But yet some things have a limit to it. Kissing and holding hands is ok but things that go higher than that should not go in public places not just our own reasons but also for kids that might be around to see more of PDA.
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Yep, you said it. Thanks!
@tusharb (3157)
• India
7 Nov 06
me hav that...i don lik 2 do...
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Ok, Thanks!
@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Ok, Thanks!
@suzieque (2334)
• Canada
7 Nov 06
I agree with you. Public Displays of affection is okay with me as long as they don't make out like love monkeys!
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Love Monkeys lol....monkeys aren't very discrete are they?
@melody1011 (1663)
• India
7 Nov 06
I would say that holding hands is ok. But you cannot keep kissing each other in front people you know or people you dont know. I would feel like saying to the couple "Get a room". But an occassional kiss is ok. But nothing too heavy especially if there are children around the place
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Yeah, I agree. A kiss here and there is okay, but no heavy petting and making out (especially in front of children).
@missybal (4490)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I agree with everything you said. My husband is always showing he loves me in public, and sometimes I have to tell him cool it a little, but I think it is a good thing that keeps our relationship going.
@missybal (4490)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I agree with everything you said. My husband is always showing he loves me in public, and sometimes I have to tell him cool it a little, but I think it is a good thing that keeps our relationship going.
@clownfish (3269)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I don't mind it, but my hubby is really self-conscious about it, so we hardly ever hold hands in public.
@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Why is he self conscious about just holding hands?
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
7 Nov 06
My husband and I have NO problem showing our love for eachother out in public. To me it is a way of letting others know that we are happy and in love still. I have no problem with ti.
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Nov 06
That's great! Thanks for the reply.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I love to see couples married or not walking around holding hands or arm around each others waist or a kiss here and there. I have to smile when I see an old couple still holding hands after being together for soooo many years and say I hope it is that way with me and my hubby as well. now my sister ummmm she would always say come on guys....but ya know have been married 7 years and still love the holding hands the swat on the tush the kiss the hug don't care where we are.
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Good for you! Keep love alive and show others that it still exists in marriage. Thanks for posting!!