Feeling Lonely

@skaterx (530)
Finland
September 26, 2008 12:50pm CST
I seem to feel lonely alot. I do get chances to see friends, like even though I can see my friend on Sunday, and its Friday now, I feel really lonely at home. I don't know what is it. I guess human's are built to be social? Sometimes i enjoy quiet time to myself, but maybe not too much time by myself, I don't know. I just feel like I haven't talked to anyone much today and feel sad. Someone rung me on the phone but it was quite short. I feel miserable like im really alone.
3 responses
@katkat (2378)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
I have experience so many times you are feeling right now. There’s a time I feel lonely and alone even I’m with my friends. I don’t know why I feel this way. Maybe I have an emotional problem or something like that. Or it is a sense of belongingness that I felt alone sometimes. There is a point in my life that I feel I don’t belong in my group of friends, as if I don’t connect with them. They haven’t done wrong to me to feel like that. I’m happy with them but when I’m in the house I feel alone even I have my family with. I had watched a show in TV about a 17 years old girl who entered a convent to become a nun. When asked why she wants to became one such an early age. The answer struck me, it like it hit the target. The girl answered, she felt alone even with a group of friends around her and a supportive family. She said that being in a convent she felt alive, happy and whole as a person; more importantly, she found her purposed in life and doesn’t feel alone anymore. I think we just have to know what we have to live for in this life to feel like everyone else.
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@skaterx (530)
• Finland
27 Sep 08
Yeah, there are also people who i might consider just people to socialise with, but I don't have a deeper connection with them, thats why i feel like i dont really have many 'friends' sometimes. I just want people who understand me, and who i can relate to, and it doesnt work with everyone. Yeah, maybe u just have to find the right thing to do, the right person, or something like that : ). Thanks for sharing!
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
26 Sep 08
Don't be upset! Hope you'll fell better soon. Why not to call your friend? Anyway have a nice day or better to say evening.
@skaterx (530)
• Finland
26 Sep 08
My friend is someone I know from school, and he doesnt speak English that well, it would be hard to talk about feelings and stuff... There was a guy i talked to alot at the library but he wasnt working there today : ( wish i could hang out with him and talk :O. I was too shy to ask him that tho, since i just talk to him when he's working...
@3cardmonte (5098)
26 Sep 08
I know how you feel and i hope you cheer up soon. Do something that you love to do, I was feeling really bad yesterday so I got a tub of ice cream and sat and watched Agatha Christies Poirot and ate the whole thing. I felt so much beter afterwards!