How often your husband said I LOVE YOU?

Hi there. Well we are not married yet, but we already lost track, as we say it really often on a daily basis so it's hard to remember how many times - i must wander if it passed 1000 by now or not :D If not - it will surely will soon. Perhaps you should talk to him about it ? Anyway it is better to say it only if he means it, but never saying it from his own part can make you wonder...

ok i tell my wife i love her when she wakes up, before i leave the house, when i come back home, and before we go to bed, and all through the day. i would look over at her, and asked her did i tell you that i love you today ? yeah like 30 times, dear. then i be like ok i love ya again. i love you like a fat kid loves cake. lol

Every day. Not always gushy professions of deep emotion, but just a simple "I love you" is enough.

You should read this article: http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/learn.html. Your friend is right about your husband. I assume your primary love language is words of affirmation. You feel most loved if your husband say sweet stuff to you. However, his primary love language is different. His primary love language is probably service. You should send the article to your husband and tell him that you feel most loved when he says that he loves you and needs you, etc. Ideally speaking, everybody should learn all the five love languages so that they can give love to different people with different primary love language. People can have either one primary love language or at least two of them. Hope this helps. My primary love language is quality time and hubby's primary love languages are quality time and physical touch. So I make sure I touch him a lot so that he feels loved (hug, caress). If I feel that he doesn't give me enough quality time, I'll tell him that and ask him to give me time. That way it's a win-win situation. :-))))

we are soon 9 yrs of our marriage.we say I LOVE YOU evErytime we say goodnight with a kiss and morning kiss with always saying I LOVE YOU.my husband always said I LOVE YOU and if i dont hear him HE said "you dont love me anymore2? and then approach me and tickle me somewhere.

Same with my partner.It has been almost going to be three years and he is still shy or what I am not sure of though to express his feelings properly to me.I know he love me very much but at times,I would love to hear more from him other than saying 3 letter words.He is good,and he is working really hard for our good future,I can see that,but I want some more of his expressions too,do I sound like I am expecting too much?

Hi mel... There really are guys who are not the showy type. I remember one of my friends telling me that she had to ask her husband to send her flowers for Valentine's Day because he's not in the habit of sending flowers period. I guess you can talk to your husband about that. Sometimes, it just takes a good talk to get things straight. To answer your question, I'm not married yet but I'd like to share some of my thoughts. Well, my fiance and I love to say those words. Our day is incomplete if we do not say that to each other. It's sort of our "food for the day". My fiance is sweet when it comes to certain things but can be completely oblivious to my feelings on other things. Sometimes, I would tease him about it and he gets the point. Lol. Sometimes, we have to spell it out to men what we want. My fiance tells me that a lot of times. Lol.

I never did hear my daddy tell my mother that he loved her or her tell him that she loved him. Then, there was my ex husband and he did not tell me that he loved except on special occasions if he remembered. I love a man that tells me that he loves me for no reason other than that he does love me.

Husbands and wifes Love is a a matter of feeling.It need not to utter.Many time utterence do not prove anybody's love to wife or husband. Love is such kind of bond that can be felt in heart.The lenguage of love some thing more than body.If your husband really loves you, you feel it by your emotion.Your husband's attitude will tell you whether he loves you or not.

Hello mylotting friend!!! You have to be happy with the fact that your husband shows his affection with attitudes rather than with words. There are a lot of people who speak words and act in an opposite manner. Happy mylotting!!!