How can you rekindle the spark in your love life...

@shell94 (990)
Canada
September 26, 2008 7:52pm CST
I am at a loss as to where to start to rekindle the love we had early in our relationship. I feel so empty and lonely now. Please share any help you may have. I appreciate this alot!!!
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
27 Sep 08
I'm not an expert on this. But from what I read. Some experts think that one should go over what was it that made the couple fall in love in the first place. Can they do some of those things again. Maybe they should start dating again. Do some of the fun things that they did when they first dated. Look at the positives in each other. Don't take each other for granted. Wish you success! :)
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
29 Sep 08
Thank you for the award! :) I'll do a bit of research and see what other good ideas I can find. Please keep fighting to preserve your marriage as good partners are hard to find. I hope things work out for you. :)
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
29 Sep 08
One suggestion I found was to attend a wedding and then go on your own little honeymoon and relive the first night of your wedding if it was a good one. Relive through conversation your courtship, how you met, the good qualities that attracted you to your partner, the things that you did for each other that made love blossom.
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@aanthe (61)
• China
27 Sep 08
u should always be active and powerful in front of your lover. be honest to your lover, do some romantic things. even sometimes acting like a kid to make some fun. you'd better tell your lover how you feel, and you can solve the problems together.
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• Canada
29 Sep 08
If you try to talk and taht you might find a way to find ideas that you would like to do togehter so that you can rekindle your love. If you have to you can see a marriage counserlor or someone to help you out to cause that is waht they are for. Try new things it will help.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
I think if you want to rekindle the spark, you have to start all over again if you don't want it just being alone or letting it go. But it's not only you should work it out. In every problem their is always a solution. I think both of you should talk it out and be open about the feelings to come back. Go somewhere that you two can discuss about it and work it out, or try to compromise. Have a nice morning!
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