What now?

Well, we make freinds, but we are far away from each other. But, here on myLot, I sense the members are very friendly and very sincere. That's really a very happy community !

If you plan on meeting this friend try doing it in a public place. Like a mall or a coffee shop. That can sometimes ease the anxiety. Even meeting this person with other friends can help too. That way if you're too uncomfortable you have other people to talk to. If you plan on meeting him/her by yourself maybe go somewhere where you feel most comfortable (not your house though). But the best bet is somewhere public. That way nothing bad can happen (too many witnesses lol). Hope this helps :)

I am really shy too. But I'm overcoming it, step by step. You have more control over it than you think, just try to rationalize your fears. People don't really bite, usually. If they just hate you for no reason, they're not worth talking to anyway. You chances of making a huge fool of yourself are pretty much the same as everyone else. You'll be fine! I talked to the guy I like this week, and I'm so proud of myself. You can do it!

I suf internet and chat in internet only as I have nothint to in spare time!If I have business or study something,I won't to chat in internet!So I won't make friends in the net!Because it is virtual in the net!