what women think when someone looking at her cleavage/boobs?

women want people to admire their assets. they voluntarily try to show it off. the anger which they express is absolutely fake . so, just see and enjoy...

when i was dating i would show off cleavage a lot. sensibly though. my mom always said if you got it, flaunt it. i only noticed 1 time of a guy actually just gawking at my cleavage. it was actually my current husbands best friend when we first met. i was wearing a V neck shirt but i didn't think they were that impressive. i could obviously see his eyes and head staring straight there. it was shocking nonetheless. although i brushed it off trying to catch his eyes attention i kept thinking in my mind "HELLO! my face is up here" it was just a strange thing. i think if that happened more often to me then i would get more upset every time, but since that was the first and last time someone did that it was more of a shocker for me. personally, i don't think women like it that much. a glance is fine though because if someone is dressed that way it may be fore a reason. we want you to notice (us, as in the whole person not a single area) but please don't stare at us like a hungry child.

I understand you its normal for a guy to do that i guess in most cases. If the girl provokes to you watching then why the hell did she wear that scanty outfits at the first place. May be she didn't get XL-size :-) or her bo*bs out out of proportion with her body....

If women don't want to be looked at, then they shouldn't dress that way in my opinion. Looking is natural (for all of us). None of us like to be stared at though, so I suppose there is a fine line between admiring and staring unappropriately. But looking at what's there, hey as I said, we all do it!

Yea, i know the kind of women you are talking about. Why do they wear such flesh showing clothes an boobs almost falling out and then be mad when some one looks. Even females cant help but look when all your nakedness is about to be exposed. They may be trying to prove they are sexy but they really come off as slu-ty. Myself and my daughter do not dress like that. Modesty is the best policy in our book. We like to keep our privates private.

every women wants men to look at them but they make face serious just

hahahaha.. i dont have any problem with this, because i don't show off my skin to the point that people can harass me!!hehe and i dont have such big boobs too..hehe

Coming from a female, I have never figured out women that dress to show off their cleavage/boobs, and then get upset because some man notices them. Isn't that the attention she is after? I have been known to wear low cut shirts, or other tops that show off that feature, but if I'm dressed that way, I'm not going to get upset because I catch some guy checking out my 'shirt'. So, if a woman gets upset that some guy is looking.....maybe she should dress differently, like try a turtle neck.

If I had a problem with people looking at me when I'm wearing low cut tops(or even short skirts for that matter, then I wouldn't be wearing them. I mean the whole reason to wear them is because you have the body and you want to it show off. The problem for me occurs when I'm talking to someone and they are talking back to my boobs. While I don't mind you looking, please remember that they attached to a real person with real feelings because that's really a turn-off for me. Hugs, Tianna

From a woman. I will not get mad if I wear tops showing off the thing you are talking about. It's ok because if I choose to appear in that way and I expect to be noticed, of course only at weekends while relaxing. We all dress according to occasions. It's definitly ok to watch but man, you should also be careful about the way of your watching and pls don't bumped into the pillar while walking, Lol.

HI germany_fan, You are absolutely right! If a woman dresses provacatively and purposely shows her cleavage then she has no right to get angry when a man looks at her. I know that woman do this all the time and they are wrong. If they are purposely dressing in this way then they have no right to get angry. If they don't want the attention the don't wear outfits that draw attention to your boobs! I have large boobs and I don't purposely wear shirts that will draw attention to them but no matter what I wear you just can't help but notice them! I used to get angry, but there's nothing I can do about it because the are just really large and I am just thankful that they are there and healthy so if men want to look then go ahead!

I am a woman..I agree with you if at all a lady is walking showing herself on the road then she has to be blamed..but I feel guilty to tell in our country inspite of wearing a decent dress which doesnot shows off anything they look at us and they keep staring and sometimes in crowded bus/train they even try to rub or touch us...what you have to say for such kind of person...I feel like to slap on their face and walk away from there...

If they don't want their boobs to be looked at they should not wear clothes that draws attention.. The woman is the one to blame, because men are naturally born hot blooded maniacs. LOL :+P

i think if a woman is wearing low cut shirts and showing her stuff that she is wanting men to look at her in a lustful kind of way, so it is her fault. She is dressing that way to get attention. That is the way that i see it. if she wears stuff like that and then gets mad at the men who look at it then that is kind of stupid of her b/c why else would she wear it other than to get attention?

its not about getting pervert, if the girl , her clevage is showing naturally means she wants them to SHOW OFF! even if she gives an angry look, enjoy the glimpse of the bitc*h!

its nature that every men will and should look at cleavage if shown, otherwise he is having some problem...only girls are to be blammed for such situation.its instinct and no men can control them from seeing...if he is not seeing then he should either suffer from a psychological problem or should be a hipocrate....

I think there's a difference in having a quick glimpse or feeling hard to draw your eyes away from cleavage and making someone feel uncomfortable. I don't tend to wear baggy tops but day to day I don't usually wear tops that leave nothing to the imagination. Walking around town wearing a standard top, my boyfriend notices who's staring more than me and he says that even girls are staring at my chest. However, as people don't completely stop what they are doing and just stare I don't feel uncomfortable. If i'm talking to someone and they try and look me in the eyes but keep staring at my chest it's not as bad as just not trying at all. What I don't like is when people seem to think i'm a particular type of girl because they can see my cleavage. Although i'm not going to great lengths to show it off, I am not going to hide under clothes that are so big for me that they drown me just so that people don't get the 'wrong idea' about me. Saying that, when I go out with my girl mates we do spend a bit of time getting ready together deciding what best to show off what we think are our best features and I guess that we do that for people to see. I think that there is a line between admiring someones best features and gwaping at them to make a women feel uncomfortable. Unfortunately I guess that that line is different for every women so men can find it hard sometimes.

Well its simple enough, there is nothing more complicated than understanding a woman's psychology. do know you'll agree ;D

Believe me when I say that when you look at a woman's chest, she knows it. Some woman may actually like the attention, personally, when I catch some guy staring at mine, I think, "hey, my eyes are up here". I know it is human nature to look, but do men have to be so obvious??

I am known to have a bigger boobs than other girls and I'm proud of it. Many girls in my social group envy me because of it! and I got used to men watching my 'assets' under my low neckline shirt.. For me, it's fine to wear those kind of shirts as long as your comfortable with it.