Maybe The News Should Carry Some Positive Stories About Today's Youth,
By someonesmom
@someonesmom (5761)
Canada
September 27, 2008 3:49am CST
such as this one.
This past Wednesday evening while I was cooking dinner, my seventeen year old daughter came to me, and said "I need to talk to you." She looked very serious, and since she rarely does this, I was all ears.
As it turned out, she'd accidentally left her nearly new cell phone in the school library, on Monday morning. She was hoping to handle this herself, and to have it back without mentioning it to me. It was a birthday gift she'd received back in June.
I was very calm about the whole thing, as frankly when I saw the look on her face, I had no idea what I was about to hear. I was actually quite relieved.
She knew the phone had been picked up by a boy, because he'd used it to call our home number. He'd already left one message, saying he had her phone. She'd been frantically calling her cell number since Monday, hoping that he'd actually answer. He finally did Wednesday evening, just after she'd told me what happened.
They made arrangements to meet in front of the school office on Thursday at lunchtime, so he could return her phone. My daughter was planning on giving him $20.00 of her own money, as a reward. Thursday came and went, and he was a 'no show.' She arrived home very disappointed.
The cynic in me, told her that he was likely just messing with her, and had no intention of keeping his word. We had to go out for awhile on Thursday evening. When we arrived home, we found he'd left yet another message. He said he was absent from school on Thursday, and would meet her at the same arranged time, on Friday.
We weren't sure what to expect. I received a call from my ecstatic daughter, near the beginning of her lunch hour. She was calling from her cell phone. I was thrilled, and much more than I'm able to express adequately here.
This 'boy' is a grade ten student. My daughter said, he seemed quite shy. He said he actually stopped another boy from stealing her phone, even though this other kid "scared him." I'm not sure why he didn't just turn the phone into the office, but ... She did give him the $20.00.
Do you have a story to share, about how somebody was honest enough to return something of value to you?
Did you find your faith in humanity was restored, because of this?
Do you think young people are given a bad reputation, by today's media?
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13 responses
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
28 Sep 08
every thing is a generalization, the youth are generally not caring but that does not mean that there are not great kids out there, of course there are and your daughter just found one of them.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
20 Oct 08
I am so sorry that happened but it is an all to common condition among teens and young adults these days
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
Hi winterose,
You're right. Overall youth are very self centered, but that doesn't mean that these types of kids don't exist. It really was a wonderful surprise (for me too). Thanks for sharing. Take care.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
19 Oct 08
Thanks for sharing these interesting points here. These facts are sad but true, when it comes to some teens. In addition to my daughter, I have three stepsons who are now grown men, in their thirties. The eldest, and the youngest, each got involved in some of the things you've mentioned, while they were teens. The youngest has now got his act together, as far as these things go, but I'm not sure about the oldest. He became extremely angry with me and my daughter, a number of years ago, sending me a very rude e-mail. There was no good reason for this, as I'd bent over backwards to help him, after his dad passed away. He was also rude to his little sister (my daughter) on the phone. We no longer hear from him, and he's now living in Nfld. With the way his attitude toward us is, it really is for the best. He could be dangerous at times. Take care.
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@shana123 (2095)
• India
28 Sep 08
Thats really lovely to hear , most of the teen age people are honest and none are born wicked , but if it was me i would frankly admit i would have never touched it , once while i was going to my college i found a cell phone in my street just few steps away from my home , it was the place where bachelors reside i was so scared to get in and ask whether it really belonged to them because my parents are very strict if they come to know about this then im gone , so i just left it .Sometimes even im scared of my parents so i cant help anyone !
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
I'm very sorry to hear that you feel this way about your parents. I hope that they'll come to trust you more. Actually, this boy should have turned the phone in, either at the library, or at the school office. However, he was honest enough to return it, so that's the most important thing. Thanks for sharing here. Take care.
@ElicBxn (63664)
• United States
27 Sep 08
what a nice kid - I think there are lots of good kids around but you only hear about the bad ones because that's what gets the notice.
there are thousands of kids in the states, but you only hear about the few bad ones, that must leave the rest as good, but maybe unremarkable kids.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
Hi ElicBxn,
I agree with you. It's sad that bad news seems to attract more people. The few bad ones get noticed, as you've stated, and the others are just normal everyday kids. I'm sure given the chance, they'd do exactly what this boy did. Thanks for responding. Take care.
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@teapotmommommerced (10359)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I am proud of your daughter and proud of the boy. Koodoos to them both.
I think kids of all times get a bad rap. Lets face it what sells newspapers is bad stuff and not the good. We never hear about all the good that our children are doing in this world. We only hear the bad.
I lost my wallet and did not realize I had lost it. I had put it on the roof of my car and drove off. Some nice person handed it into the police. I had to go and pick it up and got a lecture from the police man on how irresponsible I was. Heck I had two kids and was trying to survive motherhood and all that goes along with it.
Then I found a wallet in the middle of a busy 3 lane street. I looked up the person's phone number in the phone book and called them. The lady was very thankful. I told her it happens and I had done it.
I also found a credit card in the hospital parking lot where I worked. I looked up the person's name and called them. I then turned in the credit card to security so they could pick it up later. I was glad I found the credit card and not some unsavory perosn.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
Hi teapotmom,
Thanks for your kind words. This is a wonderful story that you've shared here. I think that policeman was too hard on you. If anybody 'has' to lose things, it's people like you we'd all like to find them. Thanks so much for sharing here. Take care.
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@sugarfloss (2139)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 08
I was in a situation such as your daughter's.A girl found my phone at a parking lot and told the first person to call my phone to pass the message that she had my phone.We met at Starbucks and she's a sweet,sweet girl.I believe the media has given a large amount of bad reputation for the young and this has contributed partly to their psychology.Maybe not all teens are angels but please give them a chance.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
I agree that teens need to be given a chance. In some cases, they may behave badly, just because that's what's expected of them. That's a wonderful story you've shared here. Thanks so much. Take care.
@benjamin_liu (7)
• China
27 Sep 08
thank you sharing your story with us. I agree with you that maybe the media should be blamed on magnifying the shortcomings of today's youth.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
You're welcome. I think 'they' should be held responsible somewhat. Many people view the news, believing what is said. It really does paint a bad picture of 'a lot' of young people. Thanks for responding, and welcome to myLot.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
27 Sep 08
Hi Mom I guess he is one of the few that is still about and honest
There are still a few about but sadly not many any more
It was good of that Boy to do this but I believe he should have handed it in
Then again if there is a No Phone Policy at the School then he did good not handing it in as they might not have given her it back
I am glad that she has got it back
Hugs
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
Hi gabs,
It's good to know that there are still honest young people. I 'do' know this, but this is a wonderful reminder. I'm not sure why he didn't hand it in though, as they 'are' allowed to have cellphones, but just not turned on. Thanks for sharing, as always. Hugs to you too.
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
30 Sep 08
That is a fantastic story. it's nice to know that there are still some good people out there. I definitely agree with you that newspapers all over should carry that kind of story, especially since it could encourage more people to be that nice and caring. Thanks for sharing it with all of us.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
Hi danishcanadian,
You're welcome. My daughter is being very careful with her phone these days. She's still grateful that this young boy was honest enough to bring it back to her. Thanks for sharing here. Take care.
@laura1167 (149)
• United States
17 Oct 08
I'm glad your daughter got her cell phone back. I'm surprised that her cell battery lasted from Monday to Friday with enough power left to call home with it. I have to charge my cell battery every night but that's probably because it's an old cheap cell phone. lol
Last spring my daughters' and I were at an out-of-state sports competition and my older daughter brought her brand new camera. She thoughtlessly laid it down for a minute while she looked at the professional performance pictures on the computer in the lobby. By the time she realized she didn't have it with her and went back to where she was, someone had picked up her camera and stole it. I felt so bad for her because it was an honest mistake on her part. Naturally we spent a lot of time looking for it. We were going from one concession stand to the next asking if anyone handed in a camera. She was not only sad for losing her new camera, but she lost all the pictures and video she took during this mini-vacation. It had contained pictures of herself and her sister at the hotel, at the pool, at the beach...plus her friends and fellow competitors. But saddest of all, she lost her a part of her innocence that believed that people in general are good and honest. That was so difficult for me, as a parent, to see happen and not have any power to make things right again.
We had hoped that whoever had it would look at the pictures and feel bad for taking it. Her hotel key was also in the camera case so we hoped that they would either call the hotel to report finding it, or mail it to her coach. Since there were pictures of her in her sports uniform, it wouldn't be hard to look up the team's address on their website (if one was inclined to try and find the camera's rightful owner). But it never happened. Naturally, we had the hotel desk on notice if anyone brought it by, plus we had to change the key code and keys for our hotel room.
Fast forward... One night later that summer, my daughter was out with a few of her friends and they came across a group of kids that some of her friends knew, but she didn't know them that well. They were on a beach and some of the boys from that group of kids found a camera in the sand that was the same make and model as the one my daughter lost. She told them about her stolen camera and suggested they leave it in case the owner comes back looking for it. She said one of the boys told her she should take it to replace hers, but she wouldn't take it. She said at this point she and her friends continued on their way. She said she's not sure what the boys did with the camera but she thinks they probably put it back because they didn't seem interested in keeping it. This made me very proud of her that she was able to gain compassion for other people through her own bad experience and remain honest and not keep it for herself. I told her I was proud of her and that she was also a good influence to the people around her as well.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
19 Oct 08
My daughter learned a valuable lesson through all of this too. It's taught her to be much more conscious of keeping track of her things, and that there's still good in people (teens especially). I'm very sorry to hear about the theft of your daughter's new camera. I do hope she'll be able to obtain another one, but that still doesn't make up for the loss of all of the photos, etc., either. It's wonderful when our kids can still remain considerate of others, when faced with a similar situation. There are those, who would just go and take the item, feeling justified in doing so, because of their loss. Thanks for sharing here, and welcome to myLot. Take care.
@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I'm glad she got her phone back and discovered that there are still some good people in the world. That was a good lesson.
The news media doesn't share stories like this because the majority of their readers/listeners/viewers don't want to hear good stories.
Many people go to car races to see wrecks, not because they really care who wins. They expect news to be bad, so the media obliges them with bad news. It's sad.
I had a friend in Texas who put out a good news newspaper once a week. I think she ended up with about 6,000 subscribers. And still the daily newspaper insisted that only bad news sold.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
It was a good lesson for me too. I really didn't expect him to actually return the phone, and thought he was just calling to 'bug her.' So true about a lot of the media. That's a very good idea your friend had. Thanks for sharing here.
@SaviourV (260)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 08
Saviour-V teleports in....
Stories such as this are few and far between in today's news, here in Malaysia. Sometimes, I wish they'd publish more positive things than the average doom and gloom.
Maybe we should make our own newspapers, instead...^_^;;
And your daughter's quite lucky the boy managed to retrieve the phone. She could've nearly lost it for good, honestly.
Saviour-V bows to someonesmom, and teleports out a moment later....
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
It seems to be the case all over the world. We don't hear too many 'good news stories' these days about anything. My daughter feels very blessed to have her phone back. Thanks for 'teleporting in, and for the bow.' Thanks too, for your response here.
@rainmark (4302)
•
27 Sep 08
I can't believe that the boy really returned the cellphone to your daughter. If some kids found it they probably never returned it. That's a good thing that these days some of the youth have a good attitude. That also depends on how thier parents raise them. And your daughter was also veyr honest to you about what been happening, i really appreciate it.Happy posting.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
I couldn't believe it either, and we're both so happy about this. I'm glad too, that she did decide to tell me what had happened. I was able to give her some helpful suggestions too, as to how to proceed. Thanks for your response.
@chameleonsdream (1230)
• United States
27 Sep 08
What a wonderful story - and I think these stories happen a lot more than we know. I agree that the media focus far more on the bad than on the good - not just with youth but with all people. It's much more evident with kids, though, and it shows in subtle ways that most people wouldn't notice.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
That's so true about the media, and I find it sad actually. I know there are a whole lot of good kids out there, and this just proves that. Thanks for responding. Take care.