Has love made you more generous?

I think woman want man generous with time, money, attention, all is because they want to feel they are be cared by man. They are really want to be cared by man, if don't have time, woman may think, he don't like me.

Yes, I agree. If a man is generous to a woman, you will see a change in the woman's attitude.. She will not act like she has an issue with him..

Love and generosity are indeed directly linked. It is impossible to say we love someone and not open our hearts. And its when we open our hearts and get to be generous in love that we know no limitations . No tricks that i can think of here, Mimpi. When it comes to my generosity with my love I would find that all the time, money, attention, actions and words expressing my love would never be enough. There would always be more to do and more ways of being generous. With the element of surprise it would make it all the more meaningful. The power of selfless giving is ernormous in every aspect of life. He who wants to do good, knocks at the gate; he who loves finds the gates open.- Rabindra Nath Tagore.

I agree with your views that it always pays to be of generous in one's nature, irrespective of the relations. Even if you are generous with your friends and colleagues, if they are wise enough, they acknowledge and appreciate your generousity. At the cost of blowing my own trumphet I would say I try my best to be generous with others. I come forward to take the initiative, if the other one is busy. To my mind of all the things you have mentioned time, money and attention etc., 'time' is the most important of all. If we can spare our time for someone dear to us, we can surely win his heart. Everybody remains busy and is running here and there to get his tasks completed, no one has time to listen and to be patient, therefore, if I can spend some time with my dear and near ones and I could be generous in this area, I hope half the job is done. Other half of the job would stand completed when generosity has been shown in other areas mentioned by you. I am quite sure with my generousity I can win many hearts.

I try to be as kind as possible.. She has no reason to complain I think :D Neither do I :D Have a nice day..

Yes I agree true love can make us more generous because when we love we tend to share even ourselves to the person we love. Because love is unconditional, patient, not conceited and not proud. That's also the reason why most people who are in love can do the most stupid things they can't ever imagine they can.

Generous is keeping something and giving plenty. I open myself completely in love and allow my partner to take way as mush as she can.

it seems i have become more generous.my sister and my near ones always comment that i have become more generous and liberal in my thoughts.

A lot of people equate generosity with materialistic things but it is not necessarily about this at all. We can be generous in spirit, generous with affection and generous with our words and actions. The love I feel for my wife is expressed by so much more than a bunch of flowers or by a card or chocolates; it is expressed through all I do and all I say on a day to day basis. It is shared every time I tell her that I love her, or that she looks pretty or even by accepting the occasional mood swing much the same as she does with me also! Love is nothing but a word if it is not expressed by our actions as well. I do believe I am generous with love and communication towards my wife but you may have to ask her also! Hopefully she would be generous with here answer!

i had never been in love. so it may be that i can't say it very right. but from the surrounding i have seen many people become truly generous in love. may be in all cases. but there are exceptions in all.

Hi Mou Hope u must be doing well Love and Generosity, So u r co relating it. Hmmmm U wanna say if u love u should not be hiding it and spending ur time. emotions, money to ur LOVER. What id its one sided Love? Then What? And what about Woman, what IF they Truly loves, how they manage to express? Take care

I think I would say I am generous to those I love....all you my friends around here will surely agree with me...generous in my words, generous in my expressions, generous enough to open my heart to those whom I love very much....generous enough to give you all gifts here (check my discussions here...there is proof) .....after all most of those I love are here on mylot now.....

yes,what we need in our life and our love need generosity, in some degree,it represent the love in your heart,the power is also very amazing,so take good advantage of the power can enable you with ability of cherishing and sharing with others.To love others like love yourself.

Hi mimpi dear..I do agree fully with you ,that a woman can love and show it much better than man in upteen different ways.Infact I often find that men are clumsy in expressing their love to their better half thought they they appear to be very attentive and "gentlemanly" during their courtship days . Yes love has indeed made me very generous.And giving makes me more happy than receiving when it comes to my love.It can cement deeper bonds,tide over misfortunes and negative impacts,multiply happiness and will increase your eagerness to face a better tomorrow and face more of life's challenges with optimism.

Not spoiling him, just making him happy whenever I'm with him. I'm not selfish when he has something to do that I never let my self to stop him in whatever he wants to do. I never get jealous if I know that there is nothing to be jealous to because jealousing makes a relationship in breaking. That's why I'm in a very control in everything. Because if you really want your relationship to your partner you have to trust him/her to if he/she has trust in you too.

it is beyong measure

I think Boyfriend is more generous to me than I am to him. I've been selfish for the last year or so and he's been very patient to this day. Sometimes I wonder why he's still in love with me because if I were him, I would probably be gone by now. In a weird way, this is how I know he loves me very much. He has held my hand and it seems like he's never let go. On a less intense note, I want to share what just happened half an hour ago to demonstrate Boyfriend's generosity. He has been talking all day about having a frozen coffee drink and drinking it while he relaxes in front of his computer after a very hectic week. Boyfriend asked if I wanted one too, I said yes. He came back after a few minutes with the drink he prepared, gave it to me and asked me if it was okay for him to drink one of my bottled cold coffee drinks (not the frozen one) since he used up the last of the mix to make the one he gave me. I told him he could have the whole frozen drink he made for me as he was the one who was craving it more. After numerous you-can-have-it statements, I finally said that I will take the frozen drink and he can have the cold one. Boyfriend gave up what he was craving all day to make me happy. I am very lucky to have Boyfriend.

I agree with James. Generous is not just material generosity. A much much bigger point is to be generous in action and words. Do you praise and encourage the other person. Do you get up and get them a cup of tea. Do you do all the little things that make the other person happy. There are all kinds of examples of people that are very rich and are very unhappy. It isn't the money, it is the thought.

Yes,generousity is an aspect of our character!I think if you want to make friend with girl!We should not only be generous but also brave,intelligent ,clever and so on!

Yes, as a husband, i love my wife very much. so i am generous to my wife, it is the most important to a family.